Vanity “looks like a Lovel”

Goethe once said: vanity is a desire to pursue personal glory. It is not based on people’s quality, achievements and achievements, but only based on personal existence to win others’ appreciation, A desire to respect and admire. So vanity is nothing more than a frivolous and beautiful woman at best. Bacon once said: reputation is like a river, and what it floats is always frivolous. Excessive pursuit of vanity will inevitably lead to disaster. There are indeed many such cases in real life, such as cheating in exams, plagiarizing papers, taking stimulant when athletes participate in the competition, making false statistics by local officials, etc, all the ugly phenomena in the world are related to vanity. Besides, girls only ask about their wealth when they are looking for a partner. When they fall in love, they only look at whether their faces are beautiful or not, regardless of their life after marriage and so on. Many tragedies in the world are also rooted in vanity. Indeed, once people are obsessed with vanity, smart people will become stupid, kind people will become evil, and even do some incredible things. Countless facts show that vanity is a special disease, a kind of evil like smallpox and cholera. In this regard, people must be highly vigilant. Please take a look at the example: when a person was 16 years old, he was admitted to a county key high school. He entered a city from a rural area, and entered a high school from a junior high school. His vision became wider and his heart became wild. He felt that fate was too unfair. He was also a human being, and his intelligence was not worse than others, but he lived a life of frugality. He had never experienced so many pleasures in life. The more he thought about it, the more unbalanced he felt. He had to wait for the opportunity silently and all the opportunities that might make a fortune. Finally one day, he waited for the opportunity. Several associates invited him to ask for the debt for a friend, so he followed him without hesitation, which led him to a wrong path. In a trading company, through short and meaningless negotiations, the associates suddenly turned against each other and began to tie the manager of the company down. He was shocked by all the sudden things. He knew that this kind of behavior was far from as simple as asking for money, which was probably a crime. But everything happened instantly. He took a handbag handed by his associates and left the scene with them in a muddle. The next day, associates brought him a sum of money, and tell him handbag things value 10 multi-million. He was shocked, but he did not dare to face the reality correctly. With fluke mind, he took the money and wrote a farewell letter to his parents with tears. Then he left home quietly and went to work in other places, trying to escape from the punishment of law. From then on, he began to dance with demons and never slept soundly. His heart was hit and swallowed by sleepless conscience and horrible demons every day, I often see myself caught in my dreams. After a short time, he really started his life in prison, which was the result of vanity. Psychologists tell us that vanity is a common character weakness of human beings. It is terrible, and the scope of this horrible is almost unlimited. The key point of it is jealousy and slander others, and it is to take offensive instead of defensive. For those with strong vanity, the people around him are his enemies. They won’t get pleasure and help from their contacts with others, instead, they often have conflicts with their neighbors, colleagues, friends and even relatives. Under the control of strong vanity, they sometimes have terrible motives and bring very serious consequences. They always want to surpass others in all aspects and show their strength by exaggerating their own value in others’ eyes; They show people with false images and gain others’ praise by deceiving themselves, in order to achieve the effect of improving my prestige. When they act of vanity, they act very conceited and feel that they are great and powerful. However, when they are alone, they will feel very self-abased and feel very empty and melancholy in their hearts, I live very tired. Therefore, excessive vanity is a kind of extremely abnormal psychological state, which is an extremely abnormal social emotion expressed by a person for obtaining some honor and attracting general attention, we must abandon it completely. The good way to treat others’ excessive vanity is not to start with how to destroy it, but to focus on how to improve it and induce it to be beneficial. For example, for those rich and vain people, you can let them take out funds as charity funds, or run a business to make others more secure; For those talented and vain people, he can make more contributions to the society, and so on. We must make up our mind to overcome the excessive vanity towards individuals. You should evaluate yourself objectively, treat your advantages and disadvantages correctly, do not deceive yourself and others, and build confidence in yourself. We should adjust our own goals and turn the pursuit of desire better than others into practical actions to pursue the goal of self-struggle. We should treat honor correctly, do not be keen on the superficial undeserved reputation, and pay attention to the cultivation of practical ability. We should strictly avoid not telling lies and avoid showing vanity by telling lies. The most important thing is not to be tired of reputation and image, and to be brave to show the true and natural self. As long as you do this, you will be open and optimistic, and you will be loved and praised by the public.

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