Live like a fruit tree

Is it easy for people who like words to feel sentimental? I can’t remember since when I became so lonely. I just want to stay away from the crowd and stay alone. When a person starts to refuse noise and crowd, then everything seems inappropriate and incompatible. Keep a habit of writing all the time, turning the mood into words, for decades like a day, then page by page, lost in the wind. One day I suddenly found that the memory of thirty years, a long journey, suddenly became blank. I was like a frustrated person, trying my best to search for those long past hidden deep in my heart, everything is gone, youth and youth, as well as those dreams of wind, flowers, snow and moon. I have grown into a middle-aged fruit tree without worry or fear. I have been used to wind, snow and rain, as well as wind and sun. Whether it is beautiful flowers or fruits, I face it calmly. This is the fate of a tree. Even though the branches of life bear the most green fruit, the tree is still a tree, which grows gradually. Young fruit trees accelerate the pace of growth, and finally produce fragrant flowers, while what farmers are eager for is results, hopes and gains. Middle-aged trees should have the most vigorous vitality, blooming bright flowers and producing rich and sweet fruits. Then, I hope that like a middle-aged fruit tree, I can enjoy the most beautiful blooming and the most desirable and sweet fruit for myself and my life. Until one day the branches withered and turned into firewood, which was put into the stove and burned with the last warmth. Life is like a tree, so is life. When did those words used to write mood and self-comfort begin to contact with others? That’s just my secret and happiness. I don’t know who told me that you should write it online, share it with everyone, and get recognition. Is this necessary? I only write it to myself. I said. If you can’t get the recognition of readers, what does it mean if you write alone? I admit that these words touched me. Therefore, I tried to put the words I wrote online. Thanks to prose online, which gave me a platform for self-presentation. Thanks to Ke Er, who gave me the opportunity to render my mood and story as much as possible. Thanks to those teachers and friends who came to my space, let me share the happy mood with you happily in the text. May you all be like the fruit tree with beautiful flowers, and give readers the most sweet fruit on the stage of prose online, in the season of vigorous youth, each show fragrance. I said to myself: take root in the land under your feet, make a little progress every day, and you will grow unconsciously. In this life, I only wish to live quietly and silently like a fruit tree. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Night imagination

I opened the window and looked at the colorful fireworks, chewing the loneliness in a foreign land. My once injured heart was aching faintly, so I had to let the overflowing thoughts drift in the wind for eight years. May 12, I was threatened by darkness, when I was threatened by hunger and gave up my life without any choice with my head drooped feebly, the uncle of liberation army propped up a blue sky for me in time. My smile flowed on my face, and my life finally continued. But many of my classmates put down the pen in their hands forever. Those sleepless eyes were endless nostalgia for the sunny world. Life is like a flower, we shouldn’t give up early, youth is precious, we shouldn’t cry, my face is full of sadness. I saw green, orange and white figures shuttling around, and my frightened eyes were somewhat comforted. I also saw many grateful eyes. Soon, my classmates and I grew our confidence into the schoolbag again, and walked into the spacious and bright classroom. Laughter and laughter were still a beautiful scenery on campus. My hometown also has a new look. Now I am working in Henan. Although there are setbacks, I have tempered my strong heart. The boat of life sailed far away with my efforts. The memory was pushed away by the days, but the eager expression of the PLA uncle was still like yesterday. The words encouraging me were still echoing in my ears, and what was more unforgettable was the love gathering in my hometown one by one. I want to repay the love like hot spring with hard work. Like (prose editor: prose online) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Learn to appreciate yourself

Today, the biology teacher asked me a question. I stood up and stubbornly said for a while: No, my mind was blank. I stood alone on the seat and felt numb, the bell rang, the teacher said to sit down! My whole nerve began to be disordered. I couldn’t help crying anymore. I cried on the table. It was really uncomfortable. I really didn’t know when it would become my motto. Don’t know why. Why am I like this today? Why is it like this? It is so self-abased, so weak, why do you always wash your face with tears? I really don’t want this. Will this solve the problem? My classmates came to comfort me. Don’t let me cry, don’t let me cry again, but my heart is particularly uncomfortable, that disappointing tears can’t stop flowing down. I, changed. Lying quietly alone, my classmate showed me the text message and wanted me to let it go. Yes, the text message was funny, but I couldn’t laugh out. My brain was paralyzed. I hate myself! I asked my classmate: Why do you think I am always so fragile and self-abased! Why do you feel tired when you are alive! You say why? She looked at me and told me that actually everyone has something fragile in his heart, but his attitude towards them is different. Some people will treat a failure very optimistically, and learn from it; While some people are very afraid of it, a blow. A failure will make him collapse; In fact, life is very short, we live in this world, first of all, we must learn to appreciate ourselves, do not make ourselves lost because of a failure, in fact, you are great, but you always think I can’t do it. I am worse than others. You don’t need to think like that. This may be the reason why you can’t walk out of your bondage to yourself! Yes, life is only a few decades, why not grasp it well! Everyone has advantages, why do you always think so bad! I thought my appearance was plain, why didn’t I think I am unique in the world? Why do I think I have to dampen my courage because of a failure? There are so many setbacks in life. If you want to escape and think you are too stupid when you encounter setbacks like me, then when can you stand up! I endured tears and stopped crying. I didn’t say anything. After class, a person quietly thought, saying ^ when people are alive, first of all, we should value ourselves. If we all look down on ourselves, how can others value ourselves? Give yourself some courage, give yourself some strength, I don’t believe, I will always deal with failure, I don’t believe that I will always be so bad, I have to work hard. Try hard to change yourself, get out of self-abasement, and decorate your dreams with your own actions! The compositions written again and again are so powerful, but what about yourself? It’s just a fictional character in the story, and today I want to be a real person! Don’t think too much, don’t care about me in others’ eyes, as long as you believe in yourself! In fact, I am not bad! The first thing a person should do when living in the world is to learn to appreciate himself. That is not the so-called narcissism. Learn to appreciate yourself. If you are influenced by heavy study or great pressure, then take a break and don’t just rush around in a hurry, don’t put troubles and self-complaints into your luggage any more. When facing the stars at night, make a pot of tea and learn to appreciate yourself. Then, you will be surprised to find that, in fact, you are excellent! Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Heart of sustenance

However, human beings are also very fragile animals. They bury their fragile side in the deepest part of their hearts forever. They are optimistic and carefree in front of outsiders. However, when it comes to the dead of night, who knows its sadness and crying. When people are tired, they all need a harbor of spiritual love that can calm down and relax. For example, if a child is wronged, he can freely vent his grievances in his parents’ arms, which is the ownership of the child’s heart; People who work outside leave home in order to earn money to support their families, but they have no complaints or regrets, because they are fighting for the people they love in their hearts, and family members are the goal of the struggle and the sustenance for the next effort; the hearts of parents are always on their own children. In ancient times, people lived from their father at home, married from their husband, and died from their son. But what about their parents now? When I had a child, I was determined to create a future for my child. When the child grew up, I wanted to get married and have children. My parents were determined to do it for him. Did you think it was all right after the marriage? Let them (them) struggle by themselves? But parents will never put down their worries about their children. One thing after another, but never say tired. Filial piety of children is the common wish of parents all over the world. Everything is said to be easy but difficult to do, even a little care, A little care; The wish of parents all over the world is the happiness of children! The heart depends on, the love depends on. What you think in your heart depends on. The selflessness and devotion of love. If you are tired, you will have a harbor to stay; If you are dead, you will have a grave to stay; If you are dead, you will have a source of irrigation; If you are tired, you will have a goal to struggle; heart is the core of human beings. We know that when we are tired, we want to have a home to rest. Only when we have a goal to guard in our hearts can we have the goal to survive; home is the harbor of all hearts and the final belonging of Hearts. Everyone has the love to guard in his heart, which is all the different love and the sustenance in everyone’s heart. Like (prose editor: yuiran) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Text, women’s

I have always thought that words have a puzzling relationship with women. Some people say that there is a kind of sadness in my articles, some say that my mood is particularly sad, and some even say that I am a lonely woman. No, facing the sea, spring blossoms are my yearning, lively and cheerful, joking is my character, naughty and willful, understanding is my nature. -Text: The fence is sparse and sparse, but the text is just a cup of coffee, smelling the faint fragrance. Looking at the text typed under the keyboard, I deeply integrated myself into it again. A woman who is obsessed with words is as crazy as love. They like to walk in the world of mortals with a plain heart, looking for that kind of beautiful thing and pursuing that kind of emotion that makes them excited. As long as it is what they love, even the tiny flowers in the dust are so dazzling and fragrant in their eyes. Even though they could only sigh the pity of the bone along the river bank, they were still from the spring girl’s dream. Lovel was their constant yearning forever. They will never forget that they once loved each other so much. They loved each other so much, so much, so painful that they were willingly hurt. I always believe that the most beautiful love he has given is enough! I am a woman who likes words and sad music; Although sometimes words only make me more lonely, sometimes sad music only makes me cry. Almost all of my words are with a hint of sadness, and there are few people who belong to happiness. I also know my words, which can not be called an article at all, but a monologue of mood. Sometimes, it is more like a person talking to himself, and sometimes it is like sleepwalking. When people who saw my number added me from prose website, most people said: I like your words, which is a kind of slight sadness revealed in the words, just like being hurt and rubbed gently, it seems to be soaked in tears, and there is a kind of sad beauty. Someone says: You are a person who lives for love and dies for love, and your words are all love. Others said: You are very real, and you are a real person! There are also friendly criticisms from friends: why can’t you walk out of your narrow emotional entanglement. Why not write something meaningful? Some netizens asked, are you so sad and sentimental in your life? In fact, in reality, I am a carefree woman with a smile like a peach blossom. Life is very happy, very warm! Therefore, he would always pinch my face and say with a smile, “you little cheater, you will pretend to be pitiful! And I just held my mouth, a pair of grievance, pitiful look, actually secretly proud. I don’t know if it is too happy, so I need sadness to decorate it? Or do people have two sides, one is sunshine and the other is dark? Perhaps because the heart is real while the soul is sad; Therefore, the ten fingers are also dyed with the color of sadness. Whether you say I am moaning without illness or saying sorrow for giving new words, you are all real me. It is not written to please anyone, nor is it pieced together for whom; Whether it is written or music, it is for expressing and commemorating. For many times, words and music are a kind of dream sustenance. If the heart is there, the dream is there; If the soul is there, the words are there! The women who write are pretty. They use words to express themselves, dress themselves up and interpret themselves. In the world of words, they are as gentle as water and as spiritual wisdom as Fox. There are truths that have nothing to do with the world; Beauty that has nothing to do with appearance; Elegance that has nothing to do with the rich and the poor; Flexibility that has nothing to do with the outside. They are writing in the wind, wet in the rain, dancing in the snow and burning in the fireworks. Words are the whispers of women’s hearts. Words let women read life into poems, proses and novels; Words let women go there with quiet dignity, moving elegance, sitting dignity, line of cheesy beautiful scenery. Women use words to show their true nature, making the sweetness and bitterness in life, the oil and salt of daily necessities, the spring, summer, autumn and winter in life, the wind, flowers, snow and Moon, become beautiful words, and blossom surprisingly enchanting. Tired and tired, wandering in the world of words, looking for a sense of relief where words and heart meet. The woman’s heart is the beating notes in her writing. The Heartbeats and heartbeats aroused by love and love flow slightly in the words, revealing the fragrance freely. The heart flower is swaying in such warmth. Words about love can always be found in women’s words. Maybe she doesn’t have much experience, but she can make her life as outstanding as possible in words; Maybe she hasn’t loved it sincerely, but in the words, you can write dreams and idiots, smiles and tears, feelings and sorrows. The woman walking in the text is delicate and gentle, and there is a kind of elegance and pleasure in every smile. Women’s words are another kind of dance of women. The world changes, and the red, the green and the Green are all in her understatement. The woman in the text is simple and pure, with fragrance in the dark night and fingers like flowers. Ren Yun is light, the wind is light, and the years are deep. They stare at each other and smile, speechless. Words are the most faithful lover of women forever. Life and Death go with each other and never leave. The woman who writes with the soul as the companion, the words as the soul, entangled with the words, smart and affectionate. It will let women learn to forget the painful pain and the unforgettable oath. The words of women are the loneliness of screaming, the tenderness of love, the fragrance and charming perfume, and the high-heeled shoes striking the heartstrings. Words are the narration of women’s emotions; Words are the extension of women’s hearts; Words are the expression of women’s thoughts; Words are the memory of women’s world of mortals. Without words, how do women dream? Without a Woman’s Dream, will the world be colorful. Women who love words like to miss the past. It is often said that when one begins to miss, he is old. Although the appearance is not old, the heart is vicissitudes. They never forget those beautiful things that make people feel excited, mountains and waters, people and things, the outline is still clear, moving forever in their hearts, emotions never fade. I like words, but I don’t dare to linger on my past words, because every word reveals sadness and heaviness, I’m afraid that I can’t afford it, I’m afraid of the feeling of collapse, and I’m afraid that I don’t dare to move forward any more. When you are happy, express happiness and happiness between the lines and share it with everyone. When you are sad, let your thoughts jump between the lines and release those fruitless worries. When you are lonely, write a paragraph of words, write a kind of mood, the heart is no longer helpless. Words make women more beautiful, more calm, more calm, and more wise Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

From downstairs warm

The woman downstairs is noble and beautiful. The fashionable dress, the fair skin, the age of 43, looks less than 30. I often meet her when I go downstairs. She always smiled at me politely or nodded, without much conversation. My husband has been working here for eight years, and I heard him talk about her. She has a very good job. She works very easily and has a high income. She is a daughter and will go to high school this year. Once, we happened to go upstairs together and heard the beautiful piano sound from her house. I asked her that it was your daughter who was playing the piano! She smiled and said: Yes! She plays the piano very well. I added,. Is? She said. We have let her learn piano since she was three years old, and now she has got the certificate of level 10. Then you can let her go to a music school in the future! I wanted to do the same before, but she didn’t want to do it. She just took playing the piano as a hobby, so we had to respect her opinion. After chatting, she arrived at the door of her house. She warmly invited me to play at her house, saying that her daughter didn’t play the piano very often because she wanted to take the senior high school entrance examination, ask me to take my daughter to play. I was in a hurry to go home to cook, so I was very gentle. Once, my husband sent my daughter back from school and said to me: the woman downstairs packed a lot of clothes that her children couldn’t wear and put them in front of her house, she wants you to go downstairs and pick it up later to see if there is any suitable one. Oh, I didn’t care too much. My husband left for work, while I was busy helping my daughter dress and let her eat. Just fed my daughter, dangdangdang, there came a knock on the door. Is who? I don’t know many people, and few people come to visit my house. I opened the door hurriedly. It turned out to be the neighbor downstairs. She smiled: I packed up some clothes that my daughter didn’t wear. I wanted to throw them away, but the clothes were all good. It was a pity to throw them away. I thought of you, seeing that your daughter is the right age to wear, so I came to ask you, if you don’t mind! Looking at her sincerity, I said hurriedly: don’t dislike, don’t dislike, I will go downstairs to see if there is anything suitable for my daughter to wear. Therefore, she followed her downstairs and saw two piles of clothes neatly packed at the door. The clothes were very good and not shabby. I was about to pick a few pieces and she said, “If you don’t dislike them, take it home, you can’t wear it, just throw it away. I thought there were a lot of clothes, so I had to choose a lot, so I went home and took a large woven bag, which took a lot of effort, I just got my home on the sixth floor from the third floor. Although the clothes were worn, they were all very clean, and there was a smell of perfume. My daughter came back and saw so many clothes, she said to me, Mom, don’t ask others to wear the rest clothes for me in the future. If I wear it out, the aunt who gave me the clothes will see it. I feel very embarrassed! Will she laugh at me! I smiled and said, “my child, my mother knows that you are older and have self-esteem. However, the aunt downstairs is very sincere. She gave these clothes to you, it shows that she is also a lovely person, how could she laugh at you! My daughter nodded and tried on several pieces, which really fit me well! One day, I went downstairs and met her again. I said to her: most of the clothes you gave to my daughter can be worn. She also likes them. Thank you! She smiled happily and said, “it would be good if you don’t dislike it! I was a little embarrassed to give you these worn clothes at the beginning! Who says city dwellers are indifferent? Who says city dwellers are ruthless? The woman downstairs gave me some old clothes that many people might not care about at all. However, what I felt was a warmth and concern from my neighbors. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Day Break

Now I finally know what life means. In the past, when I learned vocabulary, I only understood the written meaning of this word when I saw it. However, the last accidental factor made me experience the meaning of this word in person. When the press festival was coming, I led a tug-of-war team to participate in the activities organized by the journalists association. I didn’t want to crush my Shank because I exerted too much force in the tug-of-war. I had to be admitted to the hospital. I spent more than one month in the hospital. For more than a month, I have suffered from the pain of living like a year. Because of the serious injury, the doctor made a knife, cut me a long cut of about 20cm, installed steel plates, nailed nails, and fixed the whole leg with plaster, which made it inconvenient to move. When my friends came to see me, they all said that they could bring the laptop to the ward, read some information on the internet and write something. This idea is good, but I tried it once, but it didn’t work. Although the pain of leg injury is not serious, the discomfort makes me unable to look at the writing with spirit. Because the surgery just ended, I needed to diminish inflammation. During the day, it was mainly infusion. Five groups of liquid needed to be delivered a day, which took about 5 hours. In this way, I counted the drops of liquid while living. When the liquid was not delivered, he sat alone. Sometimes, the nursing workers who were invited blew the farm work. But I can’t sit for a long time. The temple is painful and the waist is painful. I can only sit for a while and lie for a while. I thought it would be better at night, because I didn’t care about anything when I fell asleep, but it was even worse to sleep at night. In the past, my sleeping time was usually after 12 o’clock, but now it’s different to stay in hospital. My roommates slept before 10 o’clock, in order to take care of each other, I had to lie down with my eyes open, and I was very unaccustomed. I put plaster on my legs and fixed them. I have to put them higher. The sleeping posture is fixed so that I can only lie flat without any other postures, and because I have slept for a long time, each joint on my body had a painful sleep, and the pain of leg injury was stronger at night, and I couldn’t fall asleep. When I woke up, I got up and sat on the bed in a daze, saying what I wanted? Having no mind to think about anything, I just remembered that it would be better to feel pain when sitting there. I lay down and sat up all night, repeatedly and tossed late and late, looking forward to the dawn. Really miserable. Every morning after 7 o’clock, it began to light up. I got up and began to wash my face and brush my teeth to welcome the new day. At this time, I hoped that some friends would come to visit me and talk all over the country. In this way, the time would be passed faster, but at the end of the year, everyone had a lot of things and had no time to chat with me. Every friend who comes to visit will say that in the past you had less time to rest, but now you just take this opportunity to have a good rest for a period of time. But how can I have a good rest in such a life like years? Fortunately, patients in the same ward had a 12-inch TV there, which allowed me to mix my eyes and spend spare time. The best experience gained from this is that people should live well without any disease, which is the most leisurely and comfortable. Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Happiness is in the side

What is happiness? Some people say that happiness means wealth, status, happy marriage, longevity, health, beauty, success in career, good food, well dressed, good living, etc. In fact, this view is wrong, but this is not the case. Now there are many people with wealth and status, and they may not live happily. In fact, happiness consists of many happiness factors. When we prefer something (wealth, status, etc.), we think that getting these things is getting happiness. In fact, any kind of entity, such as wealth and status, itself is not the essence of happiness, but a certain cause of happiness in life. Happiness is felt by the heart. Only a healthy mood can bring happiness. In a bad mood, even if you are an emperor and have the power, status and wealth of the world, you will still live a miserable life. Now there are more people pursuing happiness and fewer people getting happiness. Why? It is mainly because of the wrong concept that happiness is unconditional and depends on luck. In fact, happiness is conditional, and nothing in the world is unconditional. Everything is made up of conditions. Take forming a chorus for example! There should be commanding teachers, league members, someone composing music and so on, which are all tangible; Other intangible factors include the enthusiasm, confidence, morale, internal harmony of League members and so on. While pursuing happiness, we must have the conditions for happiness and pay the price first. If you don’t want to pay and just want to get, there is absolutely no such thing in the world. To accomplish anything, there is always a price for some time, some painstaking efforts, some money and some labor. There is nothing to gain without work in the world. Happiness must loyalty. Loyalty is a loyal person. On the surface, he often suffers losses. In fact, he takes advantage of it. Because a person who is loyal and doesn’t care about others, his children are all excellent, his wife is also very virtuous. Therefore, to suffer losses is to take advantage. We must be honest. Honesty is sincerity. There are many people who are honest and honest, but their attitudes are casual and their interpersonal relationships are not harmonious. We need to live happily and have a good interpersonal relationship. If you don’t have affinity and get along well with others, then you will be annoyed every day. If you are sincere, even if you do something wrong, others will forgive you. Pursuing happiness must be modest. Modesty means modesty, tolerance means tolerance. There is no perfect person in the world, there are sunspots on the surface of the sun, and there are slight flaws in the white color. There is no perfect thing in the world, and you must tolerate it. If you firmly believe in cause and effect, you will be more tolerant, because mistakes are always troubles. If you say a wrong word, you will immediately cause troubles. If you mishear it, you will be annoyed. Others are not talking about you at first, but you suspect that they are talking about you. Then aren’t you asking for troubles yourself? Most people who are willing to tolerate are happy; Those who cannot tolerate will not be happy. They have cold war with others all day long, but you will defeat yourself instead of others. Happiness must awe. Revere God and Buddha. Confucius said that a gentleman has three fears: fear of Destiny, fear of adults, and fear of the words of Saints. The Kung Fu of Confucianism in Song and Ming dynasty is to respect and preserve sincerity. Lord Jing, it doesn’t mean that no one around can relax and be casual, or just like seeing a big guest. This is the spirit of being cautious and independent. To be honest, to respect every object, not to be angry, if you are unhappy, then drop the spoon for the meal to the ground, which is called disrespect, it didn’t offend you, why did you drop it? This call angry. We should respect people and everything. Happiness must be cautious. Zhuge Liang’s life was based on prudence. You should think twice before you speak, and leave a half sentence at your mouth. You should be careful and cautious in everything you do, so that you won’t get any trouble or damage happiness. People will not be happy if they live in troubles. If they want to live in troubles, they should be especially cautious. Many people speak wildly and casually. The first time they say something wrong, the second time and the third time they still say something wrong. Tomorrow, the day after tomorrow and even next year are still the same, which is called not cautious. Caution means being cautious in words and deeds. Only when we speak casually and do things casually can we cherish our happiness. Only by cherishing happiness can we own and maintain happiness. Therefore, caution is a common saying, but it is very important. Happiness must be grateful. When you think about yourself living a happy life every day and a family living a happy life, you must be content and grateful. People cannot be born in this world without their parents’ ties. In the process of growing up, food, clothing, housing and transportation depend on others’ contributions, so that they can live by themselves. While the free love of sunshine, air and water, the care of parents from nature, the care of the country’s cultivation and education, and the complementary assistance and friendship of the public, they are all things that we should know, be grateful and repay in this journey of life. Buddhism advocates four kinds of kindness: Thanks to heaven and earth, parents, the country and all living beings. Why do you want to thank all living beings? Because I can’t live without all living beings. Can you be Robinson? No, so be grateful. Only when you are grateful can you be kind, and only when you are kind can you be blessed. If you are not kind, sharp, and ungrateful, then you will not be blessed, and your blessings will be destroyed by you. Happiness is just a personal feeling. It depends on how you treat it. Therefore, we should spend every day happily, very relaxed; Cherish what we have now, very satisfied; Grasp the time, leave no regrets, very fulfilling. A happy person is not because he has much, but because he cares less, knows how to discover and find, and has broad mind and elegant demeanour. Most of the time, happiness is as simple as this, spreading like weeds and spreading like air in every space. As long as you pay attention to it, it is actually very simple to get it. People live in different environments. As long as blessings and calamities depend on each other and happiness mix with each other, the feeling of happiness will come one after another as long as we deal with the world calmly, look down on gains and losses, and actively explore the good side of life. Remember, happiness is around us, right in front of us, right in the minutes of time and space. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Teacher heart

That head bigeye round Boys, handsome gas, also have a catch opportunity and will tackle naughty gas. He active, lazy, but learning not poor. Such children if parents can with education, future should be great talents. Heard in insert my class before, he is a boarding-school students. Don’t know why to move to this completely open school to, is not that old school closed too loudly?! After a few weeks, parents treat. Heard he big boss, Please teacher eat nothing but is getting teachers to for his son multi-bother. But I vouch that parents are reluctant to take out time Education son, which people, and care about son, dig High son put canned school and this was true. Now, son day by day resistance, can not stand, he with a live person to public school. Please teacher eat certain also another hiding something, I afraid to eat a meal, can’t restrain the student, besides, the teacher is to teach students, not eat I still diligent education him. A semester down, I feel he small problems really a lot. Class STRING SEAT, gossip multi-, riding stool oblique sit, seldom watch blackboard teacher, main looking at other children; Not open book, don’t take notes, afraid of hands-on, only like said. Compared with other students in his class, this fully enclosed boarding school students self-control poor. So handsome so reiki full of baby became like this, I became a teacher really pity. For him I carrot and stick, wei ai and, combination of Chinese and Western medicine, efficacy indeed little. His grades slowly decline, word write askew, homework opportunistic non. One day I really felt angry, as ass is feet, and made comprehensive evaluation, he finally emotionally cried. In my opinion, perhaps he took waste time repent. Class, I also touched the his shoulder and said: Me, You failures back there! After class I put students, everyone left school for some way, it struck me that this boys not team in, a ask students, he not station road team. I felt sick in my heart. I went back to school to find it, and finally found it. Ring now, don’t know its No., to home, I do not know where. Another thought, he is not withdrawn types, heart is too small-style, will not have what matter. Home after, my heavy heart. The kid, and family coddled, never bullied, only wish irritating, and own not necessarily affected by live gas. What if he can’t imagine not go home? Grilled train ran, or self-harm? Such a thing now not rare. Early heard about teacher to fill poor students keeping students home doing their homework, bathroom one people hanging furnace cylinder on; Teacher for students homework, reprimanded a few words-style from classroom jumped out of the window; have the teacher-style grilled train under Xi’an, on Lanzhou, whole teacher mobilization relatives friends, parents find a few days and nights, this or national outstanding teachers class of students. Any A- piece accidents can knock down teacher jobs, by teachers in purgatory misery; Any point trouble of teacher are fatal, and I today reprimanded him, kicked his feet? The naughty students make me can’t help recall scenes, pieces let all educators are heart-tragedy. I eat no taste, watch TV boring, mind always thinking about boys. I thought: Little ancestor, don’t fool around, it is also very beautiful if you don’t study! Wife said: a door see something wrong with you, you what? A lost souls look like. She wondered, my soul keep up with that boy gone. Things really strange, I nervously sit still, this head bigeye round little guy as if in front of my eyes, look at me, really like Saw, catch also cast not go. Close your eyes can still see him, it’s really scary, is this his I suddenly scared, heart more loudly near my mouth. How a scary get! I think of Patriarch Sage, I do not know now where is he with students. I hurried to Confucius prayer: you old? To bless peer AH, can’t let this kid miseakes. Then remind of a bodhisattva, thinking, say Tuas resourceful boundless, where hard where to, was always running save forefront, responsive, please Tuas look at him, he was home to sleep, or outside to Teacher Trouble? How come he always my face? In a couple of minutes and think, He I were set, he got soul, also like a missing blessings, head so big, eye so round. Soon also denied the front idea upside-, again and again, for a long night! Really like Tang tour hellish ecstasy, really like purgatory fire-like melancholy Sharen. I didn’t know when my wife woke me up, but I sat on the sofa and slept all night. Finally Dawn, ride car to school crazy Chi. In fact, night days, his non-trouble. But I firmly believe that saw him to rest assured. To school seven o’clock, head into classroom, one eye see he Ruddy sat there, see I watch him, he eyes round circularly also see me. Night no, as if years no, I feel he charmingly cute. If you had a long nightmare and woke up, it was sunny on the top of your head, you couldn’t help laughing at yourself. Are you old? Just over forty-year-old! Anyway, I as back to heaven to happy. I laugh to see students, students also laugh at me. I laugh break gate of the hell, life is wonderful! Students laugh at my teacher today how joy. If is past, teachers look at each other at just the dry its, but today, their eyes refused from my sight away King Long your profile King Long your, male, Han nationality, born in 1963, university culture, joined the work in 1990. In addition to education and teaching, I have been insisting on literary creation for a long time, and I am enthusiastic about the research work of teenagers’ ideological and psychological education. More than 60 words prose, essays, and published in the “Legal Daily.”, Shenzhen Special Zone Daily, “Xinjiang Daily”, “Gansu Daily.”, “Youth Literature”, “children’s literature” and other domestic more than 70 newspapers and magazines, have over 50 articles in the de yu bao. “, the future Herald.”, the student world “and other newspapers and magazines published. 500,000 words all kinds of news works. Published the prose collection “The extension of warmth” (the first edition of Xinjiang People’s Publishing House in August, 2002), edited and published “Pingliang ancient poetry compendium” (student version), involved in editing the Pingliang wu shi nian literary works “(upper and lower volumes). He is now the Kongtong education “,” warm spring “editor. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

All kinds of life [literature monthly]]

Rest on weekends, but don’t sleep late. I don’t know whether my body has special potential or something else. As the sunlight passes through the clouds and penetrates my eyelids, I am like a cursed ghost. I stand up straight and turn on the computer, it seems that I am carrying out some secret things, and I don’t know. Perhaps in the dream, the subconscious impulse is still causing trouble. Wander around Kaixin website to see if my flowers have been stolen by others; See if my friends are hungry again; See who has entered my world; look at who planted our plants here in my heart of love. What others planted for themselves will be harvested immediately for fear of being stolen when they are ripe. But after harvest, but I think it is empty, and perhaps the best wish is to see some friends growing something here just after the harvest. That kind of happiness, I think, should be the most beautiful color this morning. Each individual of life is independent, but has such and such connection with the world. My heart is so unique and independent that I will never feel lonely. But in this eastern coastal city, I left my hometown, seeking my own dream and staying away from friends and relatives. Independent me often feel a burst of inexplicable sadness. For us, career and affection are enough to constitute the whole life. All our happiness, anger, sadness and joy come from them. Perhaps most people could not understand that Mencius had a great responsibility to the people of the country, so he must first suffer his mind, and his complaints and resentment always spread over the whole sky like clouds scattered away, it makes people breathless. Looking through the classmate’s diary, I saw that she just got a marriage certificate, and I was very happy for her. Yes, as she said, I didn’t expect to get married so soon. Life is like a river, galloping and moving forward forever. We are trapped in the complexity of life all day long. Only in a trance can we understand that we have experienced so much, it has stepped from one stage to another. People can’t see themselves clearly, maybe it is because there are too few opportunities to turn back? Looking at my classmate’s talk and those two red books representing the beginning of a new life, I fell into the reverie of life and my own life. At that time, my younger brother called and said he was going to be a salesman on the train. My heart fell into another kind of thinking again. As for my younger brother, I hope he can find a good job. Nowadays, especially this year, the society’s challenge to college students has fallen into an unprecedented tense situation. As the younger brother who graduated from junior college, he was restricted by his education background every time he went to the job fair. I don’t know what kind of thoughts he has, but I clearly understand that if it were me, I am feel very uncomfortable, maybe I can’t accept it, because I have too high requirements for life. My psychological endurance to social pressure may still be very low. I always want to be stable in a certain position or a certain corner. Live a stable life, and once thought extravagantly that even if so, you should have a beautiful love. I am know how to sell on trains. That was a very bitter thing. There were so many people on the train, so narrow the lane, and they had to work until more than eleven o’clock every night. Wandering in the passageway of the train all day long. Every time I took the train, I would cast a favorable eye on these people. Maybe I didn’t really understand all kinds of people in the society. Their lives, their pursuits, and their importance. I said to my brother, it’s up to you. Don’t work too hard. As a brother, I don’t know what I can do to help him at this time. I just feel that he has grown up and I feel that I have nothing to help him now. Like (prose editor: prose online) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…