Is valuable to know oneself

China’s Spring and Autumn period, the famous philosopher and thinker Lao Tzu said, one can identify with others, it’s wise to; And can know yourself, is the real smart. This is what we often say that the self-conscious. A strict anatomy themselves, is often self-aware. But people to do this, is often difficult, anatomical others easy to, dissect oneself difficult. So people said there are people in your self-conscious. Mean can woke up to myself, treat yourself, is the most sensible commendable. Self-knowledge, is their own can understand their own, own can know yourself. Some may say: I is own, how can say don’t know, not understand ourselves? In fact. Some people can understand others, understanding of the environment, understand social, even understand world, however, is not quite make out, to do self-aware, is very difficult. World, the vast sea of humanity, can truly know yourself very few people, and not man who knows himself but many a lot. Or, why at all times, have there are people in your self-knowledge such as counsel! In the real life, some people, talk and logically, do uprising to, but often do nothing, the powerless; Some people, heart lofty ambition, really give him display space, but often large unhappy, A regret; Some people, self-important, defiant; Some people and conservative, lazy; Some people dizzied, carried away, and so on, they are mostly way a great depth geometric, lack person should have self-conscious. Obviously is self-deception, have frequently clouds to walking on air. There are people in your self-knowledge, to know what? Psychologists believe that to know the following aspects: to know in life and is represented in strengths and weaknesses; To know accustomed to dealing with difficult Way and its gains and losses; to know the repressed is what lust; To know motives, from behavior way and consequences can see hidden motives; to know the current heart and sentiment (especially unpleasant) with over the event (and was cope with gains and losses) between contact; to everyone else words and actions see the reflection of ourselves, or, can self-objectification, namely stand in someone else a look at my own; Must be able to use historical perspective to examine their past, no useless regret and guilt, can do hero aside year Yong. Know that time covered these, easy to fall into narcissism, terrible narcissism than open challenges more dangerous. Self-righteous who insufficient, think specified unknown. Self-evident, then can Ming. Meteor once in shining sky stuff of light, will be over own everything. High will risk, complacency will overflow. samesieg himself think perfect, achievements big arrogant, reputation high namely arrogant. In this regard the ancients have classic discussed, company, thus Yan, zhi ren zhe wisdom, self-knower Ming. There are people in your self-knowledge, people self-knowledge called expensive, visible people is how not easy to know; To know called Ming, and visible self-knowledge is a person wisdom embodiment. People of not knowing, as mu bu jian jie, people’s eyes can see hundred paces extra-but see his own mascara eyelashes. The ancients cloud: My day three provinces. That is, self-knowledge comes from self-cultivation and self-self-supervision. Because introspection to self-made self-discipline, self-discipline to self-respect, weight to confident and self-sufficient. Self-esteem for integrity, self-knowledge for wisdom, self-made for cultivation. People possess a self-knowledge with farms and bosom, its personality indomitable spirit, its behavior neither humble nor pushy, the moral up and down commendable, their cause both ways. On the road in life, constantly dissect oneself, encourage each other self-excited, shortcomings, amount know and thinking, capabilities, grasp opportunities, continue to create the glory of life. People to know and understand themselves, to know how high and multiple, how fat, thin, how beautiful, how ugly these external things. Some people self-confidence too good, on how they see how pleasing, which recall Zheng Gu of a poem: world-who Ken self-knowledge, shall every fine identification Yan chi. If you teach ugly mother pro Mirror, also road no pain pink shi. “Journey to the West” 猪八戒 in also had self-made: come today to wedding day to, Moonlight, according to water, is a table good figure. Actually, pig heart is in the number of, Moonlight, according to water, meng meng long long, see detail, not saying he’s not a table good figure. If in broad daylight, according mirror, he also know shame. People don’t know it is often Vanity doing blame, and women have vain without self-knower. For example, blindly blindly follow, but self-defeating, mere copycat of the story for evidence. Today some women wear on the blindly follow gen chao, actually can be called contemporary East shi. Such as kick pants, originally put on can show women’s slim and curvaceous, in its popular, I saw some women also wearing flaunt it, but display is lap a lump of meat. People to know and understand themselves, but also know what it is a kind of person, what are the advantages and disadvantages, should go what kind of road, suitable for doing so on, that person to find their own social role positioning. To really understand self-, also must look for a new angle yourself. To objective look at themselves, step outside of yourself contemplation itself, as mirror, not only look positive, also depends on opposite; Seeing own highlights, but also awareness own flaw. Including one’s learning ability and personality quality and self-judgment, avoid narcissistic self-important. To constantly improve themselves, you ze gai zhi, wu ze jia mian. Shall Know behind, someone outside the person; chi you suo duan, inch. Know myself and this is a man’s life’s subject. Sometimes, in a certain stage in their life can good idea of their own, to another stage of life, it will become very prominent, become own development in a barrier. So, for people, to do truly know yourself is not easy, need human life efforts.

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