Excessive happiness

One day, having dinner with a guest in a restaurant, the guest took her with a 7-year-old boy. The boy was white and clean. Maybe everyone was an adult, and he was the only child, which seemed very quiet. This is not what attracts me. In fact, what I pay attention to is an Ipad in his hand, watching him playing with relish. The Ipad is expensive and is one of the essentials of many fruit fans. A little boy has such an electronic device, which means his family is good. The child is the only child, which can be said to be the baby in the family. The customer is a busy man, more outside than at home, busy with business, social engagement, sacrificing family time, and paying back. Now I have the money to buy a premium car, and look up to the heights, famous brand goods are not surprising, but they always feel guilty for their children and do not have much time to accompany them, so the children try their best to satisfy everything they want, and the family has hired a nanny to take care of the children. Therefore, children are in rich families without worrying about food and clothing. Today’s children are much happier than their parents in the past. They eat well and dress well. They don’t have to suffer. They can’t talk about it on the same day. As a parent, he lived through the tough days before, got up early and went through the darkness, and finally got through it. He never wanted his children to suffer losses. This is human nature, the embodiment of parents’ love and their common problem. Children suffer a little, they also feel distressed to death. Children are treasures, and they can’t bear any fear. In this way, children become delicate and weak. As described in many articles, they are flowers in the greenhouse and can’t bear the wind and rain. In school, the teacher said a few words, but he couldn’t stand it. He jumped directly from a high place and a flower withered like this. Children’s hearts are so fragile that they often take life as a joke if they are not good, which often makes parents worried. On the contrary, it makes parents treat them as emperors. The more this happens, the more the independence of children becomes, the more they become dependent on their parents. Children are too young to understand and do what they should do. Good parents turn them into Neet and take care of their grandchildren, growing up in an era of rapid social and economic development, as well as an era of abundant materials, gives these children a superior objective environment for growth. Therefore, for this generation, we have great expectations. We don’t want this generation to achieve something less than failure or nothing worse. Therefore, our parents try their best to create an environment where children can become successful and women can become successful. They try their best to learn parenting classics so that children can start education in their mother’s belly and buy a lot of teaching materials, I have attended many training courses and never feel bored with it. When children are learning language, they can’t wait to teach some simple new words, play light music and read the so-called parent-child education in the story. A little larger, all kinds of interest classes: dance class, piano class, calligraphy class and go Class surged. The child continued stiffly with curious eyes and childlike hearts. They may think, wow, there are a lot of people, a lot of partners, everyone can play house together. The child’s every move, a smile, always makes people feel cute, pure as snow, without flaws. The mind of adults is not so simple. They are beneficial animals. Although based on the idea of serving the next generation, isn’t it to add some luster to that face? Use children’s excellent transcripts as the capital to show off, give children luxurious dressing up, use relationships to let children sit in the best position in the classroom and fight openly and secretly, making children’s pure world turbid. I remember that people around me said that when a local Experimental Primary School was out of school, there were always various famous brand cars to pick up and pick up children. There was a traffic jam around. Children didn’t discuss who could learn well, compared with what kind of car parents drive, this is very terrible. Parents always think that continuous efforts will pay off. Yes, children’s grades have been improved, and their study is often praised by teachers. They are good at piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and often participate in various competitions to win awards. Have you ever thought whether children really like doing this? Do they understand? Parents don’t care about this. Now it’s harder. It seems very reasonable to understand our painstaking efforts when we grow up. On the road of children’s growth and development, people often compare it to a race. At the starting line, every parent has made every effort to win the top. If is a sprint, 50 m, 100 m, 200 m, also can in a short time direct end. But the child’s life is very long, which can not be accomplished overnight. The first one to run out in the start can only show that the preparation is sufficient. The long life has just begun, and there are many people who come from behind. Fang Zhongyong was able to refer to things and write poems in his childhood. He could not be called the smell of the past when he was young. When he was young, he was no longer the public. Alas, he sighed that Jiang Lang was exhausted. It is not a long-term solution to enjoy a moment of scenery without knowing how to make progress. If children get good grades, parents are certainly happy, so are children. The effort behind it is always very tired. I have to finish the homework assigned by the teacher at school. After school, I will not go home, but go straight to the major tutorial classes. After finishing, I have to do homework at home again. The time is the same for everyone. Children don’t know that they were lively and lovely in their childhood, playing to their heart’s content. Playing is their nature, not heavy exercise books, stiff texts and standardized management. Parents take away their rights like this and give them more material, which is to make up for and feel guilty. Maybe only in this way can they feel more at ease. Children are unhappy and will not speak out, because they can’t relax now. They also respond to children’s questions like this. Children are birds, and they are kept in cages for a long time. Except at school or at home, exercises can’t be finished and there is little time to play. Nowadays, most of the children are the only child, which is very expensive. Naturally, they are the emperors and princesses in the family, and they are all loved by thousands of people. The family can provide these children with the best resources, try their best to cultivate them, and hope they can become successful. When children passively accept these enough and make unexpected behaviors, what do parents think of them? Too much care, young children may not be able to bear, but it is a burden. There may be unstable seeds inside, and I don’t know when this seed will bloom and bear fruit. As long as it is inappropriate to pull out seedlings to encourage the existence, then children’s sufferings also exist. What about adults? Every time I pass that building on weekends, several words of the Hanlin building are shining and dazzling. It is obvious that the surrounding area is full of pick-up vehicles. While I sigh, I also have doubts. Isn’t it tiring?

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