Advice for both men and women

Men and women, have you ever known that there is only a piece of paper between the two sexes. This piece of paper is not transparent. On both sides of the paper, it is incomprehensible to each other. However, this piece of paper was broken with a stab. Once it was broken, there would be no secret between each other. One of my friends said: No, men and women are two completely different animals, and they can never understand each other. Men think rationally and act emotionally. Women think by emotion and act by reason. Therefore, when thinking, men Guide women, and when acting, women dominate men. What is the right and wrong between men and women? Only choice. You give up the right and wrong comments with whom you choose. Men conquer women by conquering the world, while women conquer the world by conquering men. Women always pull the principles into small things. Men always make big sense of small things. To love someone is to love someone. Just being obsessed with it, and not distressed. This kind of love only stays in the sense, not deep into the heart, and often cannot last long. Men can be romantic before they are married, but they can’t go too far or be dirty. You can be sentimental, but you can’t be sentimental. You can spend your heart, but you can’t see one and sleep one. If you are a man, you must be responsible for your actions. If you get married and have a family, don’t provoke those innocent girls who haven’t got married. These girls are too innocent. You can’t provoke them. Once you get into trouble, you will not only hurt yourself, it hurt her family and also wasted her youth. Men don’t say rude words to women, and make big fists. Remember, men’s fists are not used on women. If you want to do it, women are not your opponents at all. Women are hurt, not beaten. When in a hurry, men are willing to smash things if they can’t control them, and they can’t use women as sandbags. Don’t be the man who married his wife and forgot his mother. Don’t try your best to ask your parents for help for a woman. Don’t forget your parents’ hard work and hard work. You should learn to show filial piety and respect. In this way, you are a man. It doesn’t matter if you don’t have money. Men can be poor, but you can’t be poor. Don’t be a man with a small white face and a soft meal. In this way, you will not only have no status, but also be severely trampled by women. If you are a man, you have to rely on yourself. Even if you work as a handyman or do rough work, it is better to rely on a woman to support you. Don’t chase a woman you don’t love at all for your own desire. Unless you both hold the attitude of playing, tell her clearly in advance, don’t let her misunderstand that you love her. Don’t be too sweet, too artificial, too unlike yourself to chase a woman you love. When you really get married, then you will return to your original form and be different before and after marriage. What will the women around you think? If you are a man, but you are no longer single, then well, please remember that to be a man, you should know that your identity is the backbone, and what a woman needs is a sense of security. Don’t get tangled with other girls any more. Even for ex-wives, don’t talk about things with guilt. Big men, if you break it, you will break it. People also need face, talk less in front of outsiders, let others feel that their women are always protected by themselves, let others deeply feel that you are her man, she is your woman, irreplaceable, either party. As a husband, don’t check his wife’s account easily and turn over his wife’s pocket. Just like an unqualified wife who always likes to look through her husband’s wallet, the phone number is as depressing. Everyone has his own privacy, even if he is married, it is no exception. So when necessary, as long as he does not betray his marriage, he must respect his/her personal privacy. Man, please love her very much. In fact, she is very small and will run away when the wind blows. Man, the beauty of this world is like clouds, please don’t see one and love one. True love is only once, and you cannot find it if you lose it. If you love a man, let her know that a woman is born with a lack of security. Don’t put love in your heart. Tell her tirelessly that you love her very much. No matter what kind of person you are, do what you should do, live a bit like a person, have your own things, have nothing to restrain your enthusiasm, let the word “despicable” disappear on you, only people who don’t care about you at all think it is a bitch. A wife is my bosom friend, a person who speaks psychological words, and a person who works together to create a better life. We should respect women and cherish each other, so that the friendship of love can last long. Woman, don’t pour out everything to him just because he is your closest person. Give him your misfortune, pain, grievance and complaint, and make him a vent, A man is not a waste purchasing station. When he confirms that he cannot change you, he has to flee. Women, don’t try to change a man, don’t think that he will become an excellent man in your ideal under your guidance, and adapt to him is smarter than changing him. Don’t be overconfident about your own charm. Few men will always bear the remorse, and few men can take it easy, unless this man loves you with other motives. Women, don’t try men frequently, let alone break up as a threat. When you often give him such psychological hints, his subconscious mind will make plans to break up. Don’t expand your rights without limits just because a man loves you, don’t interfere with his ideals, beliefs and pursuits, and don’t think that you see further than a man, he must have some characteristics that you don’t know. Women, don’t often ask men to go shopping with you. Few men really like shopping. The final ending of force is resistance. What men do for girls when they are in love, don’t expect him to continue in the future life. Smart girls usually give 50% discount. Women, don’t expect sex to get men, this is the most unreliable way to capture men, because love has nothing to do with the body. Love is a magnetic field, not a rope. It is better to attract him to tie him up. A rope will make men have the desire to break free, while a magnetic field can give men the illusion of freedom and an eternal temptation. Let love go through to the end. No matter what kind of things, we should be modest to make him feel warm and love. We must cherish you and me and create a harmonious family together.

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