Seven days

There are 365 days in a year, but how long do we spend with our parents? According to my own statistics, the time I spend with my parents is only about 20 days on and off in a year. I was really ashamed. Although it was only a hundred miles away, I seldom left time for them. Usually it’s just a phone call, a few chatting to ask the body to ask about life. I always find some excuses for myself. I am busy with time and too tired to take a bus. My children need to accompany me when learning …… although these objective reasons exist. Sometimes they even get busy and make a phone call after half a month. However, parents often make phone calls to ask about the living conditions and children’s growth and education and so on. Years later, my parents took time to stay here for seven days, which was also the longest time I spent alone with them after I got married. We went for a walk together. They followed me as if they were taking me when I was a child. My steps were faster. They fell behind a bit when I turned around. There was a steep acid in their hearts: they were really old, and there would be no more vigorous pace. So I slowed down my pace and walked beside them, listening to their nagging family brothers and talking about the worldly wisdom in the village. I bought some vegetables and daily necessities through the supermarket when I came back. My father carried a big bag of things when I was holding my little niece. Every time he walked a few steps, he changed his hands, and there was something more than ten Jin which made him tired and breathless. My eyes are fashionable: when I was young, he often held me up with one hand and kept turning in the air. I persuaded him to put the things aside for a while and I would come back to get them. He refused to take them to the downstairs stubbornly. I found that his back was no longer straight and bent. I went to take a breath. He didn’t worry about telling me to go downstairs. I said no, you go back and have a rest. When I came back, he had been waiting for me in the cold wind, and insisted on sending my breath upstairs. I argued with him that I could carry this weight. He was duty-bound to grab the gas cylinder with both hands. When I was going to sweep the floor, I found that the floor was clean and bright, which was obviously just cleaned. I came back a little later, and the meal was already well prepared. When I complained that they didn’t have a rest, they always said with a smile that these little jobs were nothing. Every day when the child is out of school, they always go out early to wait outside school, and meet the child’s small wishes and buy what she wants. One sentence he often said is: you are not around us, and we have never hurt children much. And constantly pointed out that my methods of educating children were not peaceful enough, and told me that I needed patience to treat children. My father and daughter were blowing bubbles together, watching cartoons and playing badminton. I was watching silently, as if time went back. When I was young, my father often played with me and always waited for me at the entrance of the village at the end of the night self-study. We watched TV and chatted together in the evening. When talking about the relationship between children and parents, I inevitably started complaining about some trivial things with my husband’s family. My father always said gently: every family has a hard book to read, and everything always needs tolerance. My mother would add: think more about the benefits in everything, and it is also a blessing to suffer losses. Seeing their experienced faces deeply impressing the wisdom accumulated by years, I felt relieved instantly. Too many details, too many pictures, in this short seven days. The most impressive section I remembered was that in the public service advertisement on TV, relatives kept calling back, just asking Hou Xia’s old mother that her daughter could not come back, and her son and daughter-in-law could not come back, my grandson just said a few words and hung up. The old mother said, busy, busy. Then you sit lonely in front of the TV without program. The voice-over is to stop your parents from feeling lonely. My mother seemed not to understand clearly, so she glanced at my father. My father only said one word, it was too lonely to be accompanied. At that moment, my eyes became wet, and warm liquid fell down hot. Seven days is just a small fragment in the boundless wilderness of time, which is not worth mentioning; Seven days is a big shock in my limited life, which will last forever in my heart. It was these seven days that made me understand how selfless my parents’ love is and how selfish I am as my daughter, it also let me know how to make up for my shortcomings and repay my parents. Although they don’t want to pay back. I don’t want this kind of regret if my son wants to be filial and doesn’t care. I will accompany them through the dusk of life with more seven days, just like they accompany us to the dawn of life with countless seven days.

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