Alive and Well in present

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Living in the present, what is the present? In short, it is the things you are doing now, the places you stay, the people you work and live with; It is to ask you to focus on these people, things, on the top of things, accept, taste, invest and experience all of these wholeheartedly and seriously. Living in the present is called here and now in psychology. Tomorrow and tomorrow, how many tomorrow, I was born to be tomorrow, everything is wasted. Tomorrow will never come, because it is already today. Only today is the most important day in our life; Only today is the only day we can grasp in our life; Only today is the only day we can surpass our opponents and ourselves. Some people may say: What’s the difficulty? Aren’t I always alive and associated with them? The words are good. The question is, are you always living in a hurry? No matter eating, walking, sleeping or having fun, you always have no patience and are anxious to rush to the next goal? Because, you think there are still greater ambitions waiting for you to complete, and you can’t waste extra time on these things now. Not only you, most people can’t concentrate on the present. They are always absent-minded if they think something about tomorrow, next year or even the rest of their lives. Some people say that I will earn more next year, some say that I will change a bigger house in the future, and some say that I plan to find a better job. Later, they really earned more money, changed bigger houses and promoted their positions several levels. However, they did not become happier and still felt unsatisfied. Alas, I should make more money. The position should be higher, and we should find ways to live more comfortable. This is not living in the present. No matter how much you get, you won’t feel happy. Not only is it not enough now, but it will never be enough in the future. Forget that the real satisfaction is not in the future, but at this moment, those beautiful things that you want to pursue don’t have to worry about waiting for the future, and now you have it. If you spend your energy in the unknown future all the time, but turn a blind eye to everything in front of you, you will never get happiness. A writer once said like this: when you seek happiness deliberately, you often cannot find it. Only by letting yourself live in the present and concentrate on the things around you, happiness will come uninvited. Perhaps the meaning of life is just sniffing every beautiful flower beside you and enjoying the little bit by bit along the way. After all, yesterday has become history, and tomorrow is unknown. Only now is the best gift given by God. Living in the present means that the meaning of our life can only be found from the present. The past has passed but does not exist. No matter how beautiful and memorable it is, or how ugly and regretful it is, there is no need to indulge in the past emotions. Wine and song, life geometry? People live for a hundred years, but for more than 30,000 days, a blink of an eye, suddenly. If it is exaggerated and concise, there are only three days in one’s life, namely yesterday, today and tomorrow. Yesterday is an invalid certificate, which is the history of the past and cannot be changed; Tomorrow is an unexpired certificate, which is an unfulfilled fact and unpredictable; only today can we grasp and be the most realistic. People are living in contradictions, and the joys and sorrows of life can be completely different because of different angles. Things that seem to be complicated will become simple from another perspective. Friend, do you believe it? Newspaper articles and TV news have reports of car accidents every day. How do you feel after reading them? Don’t care, or dare not go out? Of course not. This is called giving up eating because of choking. However, many people once said: seeing the divorce rate is so high now, I dare not fall in love any more. I take it for granted. There are also many women who are worried about their partners when they see many reports about affairs. Isn’t it a similar reaction? The so-called optimism is to believe that although the road is difficult and dangerous, I am still the one who can cross the road safely. As long as I am careful, I don’t have to be afraid of crossing the road. To be a person, you must believe in yourself. If you accidentally lose 100 yuan and only know that it seems to be lost somewhere you have passed, will you spend 200 yuan to get the 100 yuan back? This is a super stupid question. However, similar things keep happening in life. He did something wrong, knowing that he had a problem, but he refused to admit his mistake. Instead, he spent double his time looking for excuses to greatly reduce others’ impression of himself. I was scolded for one sentence, but spent countless time to feel sad. The reason is the same. Being angry for one thing, regardless of the harm to others, regardless of the cost, regardless of the time, just for revenge, isn’t it also boring? Losing a person’s affection, knowing that everything could not be recovered, was still so sad. Moreover, after several years of sadness, he still needed to drink wine to drown his sorrows. In fact, this is useless at all, but it only loses more. Why do you have to embarrass yourself when you are a person?! You have unlimited time to live forever, so what you want to do most should be postponed indefinitely? No, no, no, who would say yes? However, we often say that when I am old, I will travel around the world; When I retire, I will do what I want to do; When my child grows up, I will be relaxed. We all mistakenly believe that we have unlimited time and physical strength. In fact, we can approach our dream step by step, and we don’t have to approach it when we are free! If we can get closer to dreams and ideals step by step now, we will not live for half of our life, but become the kind of people we don’t want to become in our dreams. Live in the present and learn to feel. Human beings work hard for the future most of the time, and they don’t care about what they have now. Once it comes to the future, and there is a new future, people’s eyes always look at the front, not the present. Do you want to live in the present? That requires you to feel: who lives in the present? Is that you? Where are you? How do you feel at this moment? Can you feel the flow of air? Can you feel the subtle changes in your mood? When you are happy, what is happy and where is happy? Or do you just say happy in your mind? If you don’t know these, you are still far from living in the present. Living in the present is a lifestyle that devotes itself to life. When you live in the present, without the past dragging behind you or the future dragging you forward, all your energy is concentrated at this moment, therefore, life has a strong tension. Some people say that I don’t want to see myself repeating rigidly every day, which will make my life boring, numb and meaningless. I understand that I am a human rather than a machine. Although there are many factors in life that make us not necessarily obey our own wishes, we should try our best to enjoy life. Therefore, I think we should live in the present! This remark very good. Be grateful to life and cherish the present. This is the power to live in the present! On the way of growing up, we have encountered setbacks and difficulties, and we are not necessarily people who are rich in material and truly happy spiritually, but everyone has the ability to make himself relaxed and happier. Happiness is in the present, learning to live in the present, and small things can also become great; A person knows to live in the present, no matter where he is, doing anything will be happy. The stage of life is created by yourself, and your Avenue of Stars can extend earlier than others if you grasp every moment of time. Joy, prayer and thanks are the epitome of wisdom living in the present. Many people like to advance tomorrow’s troubles and want to solve tomorrow’s troubles earlier. If there are troubles tomorrow, today cannot be solved. Every day, we have to hand in our life lessons. Let’s try our best to do today’s lessons!

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