I hope have a good mood

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There is always such a phenomenon in life, that is, whenever a friend around him makes an outstanding achievement or has a good choice, it will have different responses to many people around. Some people envy, some praise, some compliment, some feel emotional, and some feel guilty. Seeing others are similar to themselves at ordinary times, how can he achieve such surprising results, there is such a good choice, but why can’t I do it or encounter such a good thing? Sure. Some people may be jealous. What’s the big deal? I just didn’t do it. If I were like him, I could do it. Maybe it was better than him? In a word, although these reflections and understandings above are different, they reflect a kind of emotion, that is, one cannot calm down for a while and lacks calm attitude. Therefore, if one does not have a calm attitude and cannot calm down, it will be difficult for him to achieve great things. So, how can we calm down if we want to accomplish a career? In my opinion, we should overcome the shortcomings or defects in the following aspects. Overcome impetuous mood. Impetuous is frivolous, not solid, and indifferent to many things. When you have achievements, you will be complacent and stop; When you encounter difficulties, you will be afraid of the front and the tail and lack confidence; When you are curious, you will always lack the ambition of hard work; When you are successful, you will be willing to do things, full of emotions, when not going well, my heart will feel cold and I don’t want to do anything. Overcome impatience. Impatience is not advisable, but what is terrible is that impatience is often accompanied by risky behaviors or scientific actions. Some people feel anxious when they see others succeed. They also want to rush forward or act too hastily. In order to be eager to succeed, some people often do things blindly, not scientific, or take things for granted. However, they don’t understand that any career needs scientific attitude to be carried out stably and solid and effective promotion. Any impatience and adventure are useless. Just as Sadi of Persia said: career always comes from endurance, and is destroyed by impatience. Overcome irritability mood. Fidgety is not only different from fickleness, but also different from impatience. Fickleness is to care nothing about things. Impatience is to act too hastily and be eager for success, while fidgety is a kind of bad mood, or show a narrow mentality. Or, if you see others succeed, you will be unconvinced; Or if you hate others for their achievements; Or, when others are about to succeed or succeed, you will try every means to destroy others, it is not advisable to make you unable to do anything, or to do something bad. If you do something well, it will also make you uncomfortable and unstable, and even cause all kinds of interference and troubles to others. It can be seen that whether a person is impetuous, irritable or irritable, no matter what kind of problem it is, it will affect a good mood, which is an undesirable unhealthy mood and mental state. These problems are not eliminated, and it is hard to calm down. If you want to calm down, you have to learn and enrich your knowledge constantly. Just imagine, if a person who is uneasy and always changes his mind, a person who lacks perseverance and down-to-earth spirit, a person who has no good mentality and narrow-minded mind, and a person who cannot allow others to make progress, if you exceed yourself and want to make a stumbling person, or do something, can he do something good? In addition, if you want to have a good mood, you must learn to be confident. Confidence is the premise of success and also the secret of happiness. Only with confidence can we remain optimistic in the face of difficulties and setbacks, so as to find ways to overcome them. Secondly, we should learn to adjust. Life is ever-changing. Joys and sorrows, sickness and death, natural and man-made disasters, joys and sorrows are all inevitable. There are always many unpleasant things in life, which requires each of us to learn to adjust our mentality. Learn positive hints, bright thinking, transposition thinking and multi-angle thinking. Winter is coming, will spring be far away? The end of the night is Dawn. How can plum blossom be fragrant without suffering from wind and frost? Learn to be tolerant and cultivate your broad mind. A person who is narrow-minded and only pays attention to himself is easy to get angry, unhappy and haggle over every ounce. And when you have a broad mind, you will accommodate others, appreciate others and tolerate others, and your mood will remain optimistic. The so-called stepping back from the sea and the sky will be invincible. In a word, only when one calm down, can one be in a good mood, do great things, and do great things well. Good mood can do things. My friend, please remember this sentence!

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