Marriage like Battlefield

Not long ago, I talked with a friend about how to get along with each other, which was quite similar to her. In fact, the most important contradiction between each family is how to get along with each other. From two strangers to sharing the same bed, to mutual help, even holding hands to the white head. Its simple words contain how many contradictions, quarrels, adjustments and run-in experiences in the process of getting along. It can be said that no couple is born with each other. The couple move forward in contradiction and grow up in struggle all their lives. If marriage is a war without smoke of gunpowder, it is not false at all. In fact, the relationship between husband and wife is very subtle. If one word is wrong, it will make their morale rise and cause war. Don’t fool people with tacit understanding. In fact, you will never know the real thoughts in the other person’s heart! So I never advocate the happiness of my marriage. Because happiness is just a kind of mood behavior, a temporary feeling. However, contradictions always occur. They are not in your plan, but always out of your expectation, which makes you unprepared. What couples pay attention to is art, skill and wisdom. Only by being able to control the other side and be convinced by the other side can such a marriage last long. This is the case for many couples whose appearances do not match each other. Even though the appearances of the two are very bad to outsiders, the thoughtful side will use wisdom to win the favor of the other side, play a trick or a white lie, then further grab the other’s heart, and finally surrender it. This is a type I admire. I admire people with brains and wisdom! Marriage is not a concession. Being kind and accepting blindly will only make the other side look down upon you. Once you succeed, you will be pinched as a small fish in your hands. Therefore, marriage sometimes needs to fight back. Fighting back timely is to regain dignity for oneself and better step forward for the other side. The premise of a good marriage must be both parties’ sense of responsibility and tolerance. Only with these two magic weapons of determination can marriage move forward towards a great goal. Its purpose is that I am willing to accompany you slowly until you grow old! On this premise, all the wars happening in marriage, regardless of the level, will not damage the normal track of marriage operation. Because the purpose of the quarrel between the two sides is also for the peaceful coexistence of two people, the emergence of contradictions and the solution of ideas, so as to reach a unified consensus. Even though marriage is bumping into each other’s body and mind, I am willing to go with you, my heart is pure and inarticulate, and now I am thoughtful, articulate, dear. I only know that marriage needs perseverance, patience and waiting. I don’t know if you have dreams, dear, I only know that I will still wait for you at the intersection of every dream. When you hold my hand to the white head!

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