Today, my kid is bigger than my dad

Today’s lunch is made by me: a chicken stewed with lettuce hot pot, a plate of fried vegetables, a plate of garlic fried shredded meat. Although it is simple and reasonable to match, everyone was unhappy because an unpleasant thing happened. At 12 noon, the 14-year-old child came back. As soon as I entered the door, I shouted that I didn’t have much time. I had to eat quickly, or I would be late. I also said that the school had to pay in the afternoon. Not bad, everything is ready in the kitchen. His grandfather and I were busy serving food to the dining table, and I was also busy giving 4 yuan to the school (saying that they wanted to copy two history lesson materials) and the family began to eat, seeing that the child had eaten the chicken in his bowl, his grandfather, who was over 80 years old, grabbed another piece of chicken for him, but the child felt that this piece of chicken was no longer needed by himself, he picked up the chicken angrily and wanted to return it to Grandpa. Seeing grandpa sitting opposite him, he picked up the meat and threw it to Grandpa’s rice bowl. The chicken bounced in the rice bowl and shot it on Grandpa’s clothes, it fell to the ground again. Seeing this situation, my face turned pale. Where is this still a middle school student? Putting down the bowl and chopsticks, I gave him a lesson and told him many truths. I don’t know if he understood it. Anyway, it seemed that he was still very wronged. He left before finishing the meal. I always feel relaxed about my work, but I don’t know which step is needed to educate my children. To be reasonable, I think I can explain the truth thoroughly. I often spend a long time with my children to instill an idea; To be caring and caring, I also feel that it is in place, the whole family circled around him all day long, eating, dressing, using and playing with him all along. They also tried their best to spare time to play with him. Even if they made mistakes, we seldom used military force and reprimanded them. To be spoiled, we also pay attention to that although we care about him very much at ordinary times, when we encounter serious problems, we also use force, and we fight very hard, and reprimanding is also very serious; in terms of children’s use of money, they are also very principled. They insist on spending a lot of money, but they don’t give a penny that should not be spent. The use of each sum of money must be clearly stated. But what about this effect? I often recall my school days when no one specially taught us how to behave, but everyone knew how to treat classmates and teachers, and how to treat family members and friends. But why is today’s child like this? Today, my child is older than my father. I don’t know whether it is the child’s problem? Is it a parent’s problem? Or is it a social problem?

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