Be a person who is good at waiting

When we were young, we waited for ourselves to grow up and set up grand but vague ideals, such as being scientists, litterateur, etc. The rest were waiting for others, waiting for notices, waiting for elevators, waiting for cars, waiting for planes, etc, waiting for letters and so on, our life is full of all kinds of waiting, and we spend our life waiting. While waiting for a bus is the most common experience for everyone. I am afraid it is hard to count how many times I have waited for a bus in my life. Buses in the city are the best means of transportation for the general public, which are convenient, fast and inexpensive. Bus stations scattered on every street in the city are always overcrowded. Sometimes we carefully observe the expressions of people waiting at the station, and everyone’s expressions are different. Some people are waiting, some are pacing anxiously, and some are leisurely, but there is no exception that few people can keep calm when the bus they want to take is not available for more than 20 minutes, at that moment, their expressions were full of anxiety, complaints and even anger. Among my countless travel experiences, there are very few experiences that really make me feel happy, probably no more than 6 times. The so-called happiness is when I just arrive at the station, there is a car that I want to take unexpectedly. I don’t have to experience the anxious waiting process. When the crowded crowd on the platform all got on the vehicles they wanted to take and dispersed in a crash, leaving themselves alone to look around, the anxiety and anger in their hearts would arise spontaneously, even the drivers and bus companies will be angry, although they know that this idea is really naive. And the most annoying thing is that when you are about to arrive at the station, only a few steps away, you will see the car you want to catch, starting and leaving in a crash, this is more unpleasant than the situation that you can’t wait for the car even if you stand on the platform for a long time, because we will feel the strong gap from hope to disappointment in an instant, we will generate a lot of complaints in an instant, complaining that the bus driver is against him deliberately, complaining about his bad luck. In short, he is in a bad mood and the pleasure of traveling is gone. In the past, when I encountered this kind of situation, I would run quickly, trying to catch up with the car while the car was still starting, and this kind of chasing usually ended up with my breath and embarrassment. When I have seen the scene of others running after the car for several times, I waved my hands hard and shouted loudly. The steps under my feet were messy and stumbling, I seemed to see myself running after the car like this. At that time, I decided not to do such meaningless chasing. I told myself that the car I missed might not be suitable for me at all, so even if I missed it, I would try my best to maintain my grace and look forward to the coming of the next car calmly. I have to admit that I am a blind waiting person, including dealing with other things in life, I am also very casual, and what I admire most are those who are thoughtful and have clear goals, he made precise calculations and arrangements for every action he took, including such trivial things as waiting for a car. When he went out and when he waited for a car, the frequency of the car was higher and it was more time-saving, I believe that such a person must have a careful plan for his own life, and he has a set goal in every stage of his life, although some people say that the designed life is boring. With more experiences of riding, sometimes you will feel that life is actually like waiting for a car. It is difficult for you to wait for the car you want to take at the beginning, just as it is difficult for us to realize our dreams smoothly, success is always delayed or long-waited in our endless calls and wishes. Life is full of mistakes and mistakes, and opportunities always pass us by repeatedly, we have to go through the process from hope to anxiety to final joy, even disappointment, so we should learn to give up when necessary and be good at waiting, which is very important, when my life ideal can’t be realized for a long time, calm, calm, quietly dormant, don’t be discouraged, don’t complain, wait until that day calmly, even if you can’t wait at last, you must face it calmly, smiling leave.

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