Pale write thoughts

Life is not a stop, there will always be many unexpected things. It is very important that Mount Tai collapsed in front of the mountain without changing its color, and the storm rose suddenly and calmly. Turning the crisis to safety often requires a superb mind as well as a good mentality. Pass on your best moral character and skills to those who need him selflessly. This kind of human virtue is more eternal than anything else. It should be remembered that sometimes you can’t get what you want, maybe it is a wonderful reward from fate. Most of the time, there is always a certain distance between the goal and the reality. We must learn to adjust at any time. In any case, people should not live for unrealistic vows and wishes. You can’t decide the length of your life, but you can control its width; You can’t control the weather, but you can change your mood; You can’t change your appearance, but you can show your smile; you can’t control others, but you can control yourself; You can’t predict tomorrow, but you can make use of today; You can’t do everything smoothly, but you can try your best in everything. When your choice is suitable for you and you bravely accept everything that comes with your life, you will gain your own self-esteem and confidence. Here you don’t have to take others’ value orientation as your own success standard, you don’t have to build your self-esteem on others’ recognition, and you don’t have to weigh your confidence on the balance of money. Work should be done well; Family should be careful and careful; Wealth should be taken properly; Words and deeds should show taste; Consumption should be controlled; Time should be arranged reasonably; Reading should form habits; good hobbies should be cultivated; Public welfare activities should be participated in; Sustainable development should be supported. If you focus too much on yourself, you will only focus on yourself, pay too much attention to what you do in others’ eyes, and pay too much attention to your subjective feelings and strong feelings about things. Because the objects of concern are very limited and never change, which stifle the fun brought by any other activities, and lack of constantly introducing new vision so as to constantly update their own pleasant experience, leading to boredom, extremely boring, life becomes an unbearable thing. It is not that we deny the existence of the Sun if we cannot feel warmth, nor that we deny the existence of sincerity in the world if we cannot feel sincerity. The world is lovely because of sincerity, and complete because of love. Busy is not an excuse for modern people to communicate with each other. As long as we are still eager for true feelings, we believe that true feelings will always pay off. A broad-minded person can correctly view the differences between himself and others. He neither despises himself nor lowers himself, worships heroes and idols, regards anyone as superior to himself, nor blindly believes in self-confidence and depreciates others unnecessarily. He will not be because of others’ power, wealth, he was angry because of his status. He was willing to defeat his opponent with his own strength, instead of winning because of his opponent’s defects. He had no time to be happy and unhappy and to comment on others. He is just busy with the career he pursues. He will not care about whether everything is fair or not, but only wish his heart happy and full. Life is like copper coins. Everyone can use it as he likes, but a copper plate can only be used once. Life is like a cafeteria. Choose what you want to eat. Life is like playing cards. If you get a good card, you may not win. It depends on how others play. Life is like a play, life is a stage, everyone plays his own role, and let everyone go through a meaningful trip. Life is like a mirror, frowning at it, it frowns back to us; When we smile at it, it smiles back to us! Everyone’s experience is a book. As for good or bad writing, thick and thin writing, wonderful and mediocre writing, it all depends on how you write, and others can’t replace it. People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-righteous. No matter what, forgive them. If you are kind-hearted, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Anyway, be kind-hearted. If you succeed, you will win some false friends and some real enemies. In any case, you must strive for success. If you are honest and frank, people may deceive you. No matter how honest and frank you are. Some people may destroy the things you have painstakingly created for several years. No matter what, you should try your best to create them. If you find details and happiness, others may envy you. No matter what, you should enjoy happiness. If you do good things today, people will often forget tomorrow. No matter what, you should do good deeds and accumulate virtue. Dedicating to the world your best things may never be enough. Anyway, dedicating to the world your best things. A very sad thing in life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, but you only find it at the end, and then you are unable to go back to the sky, I had to let it go with the wind. In fact, we didn’t know we had it until we lost it; But did we notice that when something came, we had missed it. It only takes one minute to meet someone, one hour to fall in love with someone, one day to fall in love with someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don’t pursue appearance, it will deceive people; Don’t pursue wealth, it will disappear; Pursue a person who makes you smile! Because SMILE will make your gloomy day suddenly enlightened and sunny. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Give me some space

Everyone has their own living, communication, life, work and other spaces, which are the most fundamental existence of constructing social system. However, between couples, space is also needed. This space is based on the most narrow field of self except the above large space. There is no complicated social relationship, away from the noise, away from the complicated trivial life, to fulfill the imagination, to fulfill the peace, single and pure existence. Sometimes it is lonely sitting, sometimes tired relaxing, sometimes helpless pouring out. The most fearful thing is to disturb, invade or not be recognized. Even between couples, it is no exception. I often encounter such a situation that when I just enter my own small world, I read books, listen to music, have a chat or have a rest to relax, but the phone rings again and again, it’s always trivial, and it doesn’t matter. But the mood was disturbed, and the original calm heart could no longer calm down. It is often to cry without tears but helpless. Turn it off. This is the best solution and the most effective way. But people are social people, and we can’t live without friends and relatives. We can’t exist independently without the essence of society, let alone turning off the machine is immoral. What should we do if it is a major event at work or a major problem between relatives? Mobile phones are provided to facilitate contact, directly and quickly respond to the situation, and achieve the effect. Why do you want to close the door for yourself? This is the gender of the matter, this is the contradiction, and this is the choice. Life is often full of contradictory choices. 2 My wife recently read a novel written by me, asking me to confess the facts in the story. I use the method of the first person to realize the real experience of the protagonist in the story plot, which is just a technique of expression. But my wife didn’t understand and thought it was my personal experience. I have tears. I said it was imaginary, and there was no need to explain it to you clearly, nor could I explain it. Art is art, and a novel does not mean that I can go there. My wife was always unhappy and shot my heart with suspicious eyes, trying to dig out the result she wanted from the bottom of my heart. I am a little afraid that this groundless suspicion will turn into an endless cold war. Then, this means that the harmonious relationship between husband and wife and the harmonious family atmosphere are about to shake. I almost said to my wife in an angry and reproachful tone, I have told you more than once not to enter my only little space at will, which is very narrow, you can’t accommodate your breaking in. You have the courage to enter, but you don’t have the courage to accept that it will hurt you. I don’t want you to be hurt for no reason. It is to protect you better. We have lived together for more than ten years, creating a happy and warm nest together, sharing a happy world and experiencing a plain life together. There has never been a fierce quarrel or an unpleasant dialogue. Spend ordinary years in understanding. Don’t you worry about me now? What makes you feel insecure about me? Tears of grievance were left on his wife’s cheek, and he lowered his head and said nothing. I said, give me some space. I have never violated your private space, because I know that I also know that everyone should have his own small world on the basis of not exceeding the principle problem, everyone’s past will not be the same. Some things may affect the emotional cooling of each other. I don’t know if it will be better. But she really exists in the deepest part of everyone’s life. Whether it is a dream or a aftertaste, it can only be hidden in such a space and silent, and can not be publicized for a lifetime. My wife ran to the bed and cried with her head covered by quilt. 3 I said to my wife, I know you care about me very much. You pay for your family, your children, and me silently, including your youth and the crow’s feet that climb up the corner of your eyes. I am grateful to you from my heart for your hard work and hardship over the years. I am happy with your happiness. Although you are never afraid of all kinds of difficulties in your life, your heart is very fragile and can’t stand the harm of one word. I demand myself as a good husband, trying my best to make you feel the fervent passion from me, and let you taste the happiness of being a wife and a mother happily in the castle of marriage and family. Although our life is very plain, it reflects the real sense of reality and the clear trend of life. I think life should be like this, without high requirements and extravagant hopes. Don’t compare with others, don’t chase the trend. As long as we can grasp the shining point of life in the ordinary, it is enough to illuminate the journey of your life and mine, and we will not lose our way. But I don’t know when you started to have this suspicious anxiety about me, fearing that I would escape from the encirclement of marriage and wander blindly in the wild. Maybe you saw the burning verses that I once wrote with my first love; Maybe you didn’t see your figure and description in my small space; or maybe I have never sung emotional songs to you that make you burst into tears; I am responsible for these improper practices, and you are not wrong. I didn’t praise your contribution and difficulty with a few words in the article. But your good thing is that my heart is full of it, but I didn’t make her into words and length in time. Because I don’t have enough writing skills to describe, I am afraid that what I write is not heavy enough, and I am sure that your youth has been worn by years in your marriage. When I reached a certain temperature, I had enough courage and strength to stretch out my hand to touch the pain you left in life. At that time, you came out of my life, it is enough to touch my expectation for the whole life. Please give me some space. When I say this sentence, I have to communicate with you. This kind of communication needs the touch between your nodding, the smile of your heart, the meat and generosity when you stretch out your hand. Please believe me. I have my ideal and pursuit. Whether this ideal and pursuit are realized or not is also worthy of further communication with you. I planted a dream on the grassland of words. Maybe you can’t accept the color of this dream, but this dream will shine brightly because of you. You can lean your head on my heart and listen, there is all the happiness left for you. Don’t push me out of the door abruptly. You are my home. I don’t want to wander or get hurt. Because I know that when you push me, it will be the biggest harm to you. You will stand by the door alone and watch crazily. Your heart will be hurt by tears. I beg you not to do this, okay? I can’t live without you, just like you can’t live without me. Without you, where would I be alone? Without you, my heart would wither slowly until I die lonely. If one’s heart is dead, there will be no soul, and the only thing left is the hollow and withered body. What do you think is the meaning of life? Don’t be afraid of the cold, give me some space, I want very little, just a little. I will be your candle, burning in your life all the time. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…

Nostalgia

Since then, I have become a traveller in my hometown. Although I looked back frequently, it still forced me to marry far away. When I go back, I can only be regarded as a guest. Besides the warm reception, it has already been silent to my daughter who has already been urbanized. My hometown is already strange to me. In that spring, I read for the first time in the back of the house with [A Dream of Red Mansions] in my hands, feeling the little sorrow of flowers and flowers; On that summer afternoon, the little girl who picked mushrooms slowly came from the pine forest, carrying bamboo blue, with a smile, it was like a lotus in the water; At that autumn dusk, at the moment when I looked up in the mountain stream, I looked at the girl with Reed and sexy fox tail on the rock; That winter, because of jumping rubber bands until it was dark, when I went home, my mother was full to play with the leather doll. Just like the new year pictures on the wall, you can only view from afar, not near. I will be hypnotized by it in the near future and take back the past. It is not easy to dream back to hometown beautifully. You need to sit lazily on the chair in the study, hold an open book in hand, and make a pot of green tea. I was tired of reading the book. I took a sip of tea and narrowed my eyes. My hometown was just like hanging orchid climbing down the high platform, touching me with its gentle hands. Therefore, I became a demon and turned into a Chihiro waterfall. I ran away singing songs and threw myself into its arms. The years of living in the city are so lonely that looking back at hometown can give some comfort. When I was wronged in the city or under heavy pressure at work, I would always buy a ticket and go back to my hometown regardless of the barrier of water and land transportation. Then he integrated himself into the pine forest in the back mountain, and used his bracelet to look at the forest beside him, which was much thicker than last time. He picked up the pine cone waiting for me like a treasure hunt. Fold a shrub into a ring and wear it on my head, so the noise of the city is far away from me. At that time, I was like a fragrant Bud, loved by my hometown so much that I could not see the sky. My hometown always wants to go back. My mother has already gone back. My mother had no job when she came out and supported her by her father’s salary. She admired people who had jobs all her life. It can be imagined that a rural woman suffered grievances at home. In the end, her old man turned herself into a steamed bun at the entrance of the village, realizing her wish of not having people to support her. Looking at the photos taken in the young age on my mother’s tombstone, the White Lotus and yellow chrysanthemum in my arms were scattered one after another. Touching my mother, it is my first time to find that my mother can also look so watery. Swallow saliva, look up at the sky, don’t let tears fall down: mom, my daughter has come to see you. In the next world, I hope that you will be born in a rich family, have a good relationship, and never cook for anyone like a servant for the rest of your life. Three years ago, my mother also walked into my homesickness. When I go back, I always buy a hug of White Lotus and yellow chrysanthemum and sit quietly with my mother for a while. The home of the city has become totally irrelevant to me. With tears in my eyes, I turned the sorrow for my hometown into thousands of poems in my heart, which were written in the sky with light clouds and breeze. Not big tears. Hometown, you must go back. It always sends its children out and welcomes them back in the form of suona publicity. Homesickness is a book that I read and read; It is also a landscape painting that I often recall at midnight, deliberately use thick and heavy colors to trace and trace in my heart, and it is difficult to trace authentic works. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…