Fate has its advantages and disadvantages, but how to save heart wounds

A friend once said that only when you are sad can you have a story. If you have not been sad for someone, it only means that you have not loved her deeply. Sometimes love watered by tears smells more unforgettable. Two people love each other. Don’t expect it to be smooth. Even if the flower of love is so beautiful, it will only be a season of blooming and will not wait until it expires. It is true that ordinary love is like a dish that has forgotten to add oil and vinegar, and the food is dull. We cherish fate, not only for the quiet beauty, but also for the ups and downs. If I had known it was such a hurdle to people, what if I didn’t know each other at the beginning? Mr. Taibai was really sad, but he was also so self-deceiving. Life is a journey without a scheduled destination. Some people get off the bus, leaving you a goodbye, and they are doomed to never meet each other. Some people get off the bus, and may not look back, even memories can be found without trace. Some people get off the bus for a better meeting next time. I won’t complain. After all, people’s heart is only so big that they can’t hold all people, just like it is impossible for all people to remember themselves. Because of this, there is no need to feel sad. The reason why people suffer is that they are too eager for fate. It is said that unrequited love is the best thing. In fact, if you fall in love deeply, it will hurt. Love is too shallow, forget it. One day, it will become a joke in time and a forgotten memory. I think it is a happy thing to have a crush on someone secretly. This kind of destined love is not loneliness or incompetence, but a respect for fate and a confession to reality. We are not hypocritical to be ourselves, but expect it to bloom naturally. I do not deny that we can also obtain happiness by pursuing others, but the love that grows naturally without human factors is the most beautiful. Therefore, if you lose some fate, you will lose it. Why do you feel sad and sad? I think it is enough to do a beautiful thing. I will never leave cheap tears for love. My attitude towards losing love is not painful or uncomfortable, but just a pity. People who really love you will not make you sad, therefore, I despise everyone who leaves me. The sad result will only make myself more and more concentrated in the bitter wine of missing and affectionate, and will not bring any peaks and turns to the determined result, I sent them on the road with a smile. Thanks for their honesty, I can send them comfortable blessings at ease. Once some people lose love, they can’t help indulging themselves and drinking to relieve their worries. In fact, this is a useless and stupid way, this way of punishing oneself with others’ mistakes is transparent in the eyes of bystanders. If you want to love others, you must learn how to love yourself first. If you don’t love yourself, why do you force others to love you. Young oneself is easy to shed tears for love, but the result of being sad is that there is no result, and it will still be what it should be. Therefore, losing love is a baptism of growth, delete those hypocritical concerns and leave those clearest sincerity, as if they were the wisdom and calmness they should have. I said in my heart that when measuring the world, I would not recover from falling out of love. That kind of withered promise would only make me more frustrated and braver in the process of pursuing happiness. It is said that it is difficult for lovers to be friends after breaking up, because memories will hurt one of them and murder that kind of easygoing, which makes them more restrained, true love is happiness for two people rather than just a sweet person. Therefore, choosing to let go for love is a kind of generosity, and choosing another way of caring for love is a kind of wisdom, those people who struggle hard in painful memories can only show that your love is small and humble, which seems to lack weight. I can be a good friend with her after breaking up, because I still believe in life, and I have been honest about it, and calm about love, one day I will meet the right person at the right time and place, which is the fate I have been expecting for a long time. Fate, after all, is a beautiful and full of fantasy. Take off your secular glasses and stand at the peak of your life. You will see further and find more beautiful scenery, strong fate is destined to be bitter. Why do we have to pay for another sad match and wipe away tears? Because of this, the color of the future will wipe out your heart hurt at this moment. 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The Song of the birds

I don’t know when, a flock of birds gathered outside the window, standing on the branch of the bamboo, chirping. After listening carefully, the tone is different and the rhythm is different. Some voices are loud and crisp, some are fast and neat, and some are low and low. In short, low, high, heavy and thick voices are all neat and neat. It is really like the clouds in Bai Juyi’s poems, which are mixed with bullets, big beads and small pearls falling down on the jade plate. When Guan Ying was talking, the bottom of the flower was slippery, and it was difficult to swallow the spring under the ice. There was a sense that people would never give up if they didn’t let people rest. As a result, I had to get up quickly and get dressed when I was still in the lunch break. When I opened the curtain and prepared to look out of the window, I had not waited for others to see what these birds looked like. But I only heard the fluttering sound, and a group of birds were flying without trace. Oh, I didn’t expect that these little guys could know how to make people quarrel. It had been a long time since the sound of roar like this, but unexpectedly it didn’t happen once. It was the appearance of small figures on the window. I only remember that the only time I saw this group of birds was when I picked up the children from school in front of me and saw them playing on the grass outside the courtyard wall, standing in groups of large and small, standing on the grass with thin feet, lightly placed a young head, where to look left and right, and then lowered his head, looking for food on the grass. When you look at it, it also stretches its small head and looks at you sideways. A half-slanted face, with a black eye, was seen by people with the left dot and right swing, and it was very cute at a glance, it is also loved by people who are extremely clever and clever, presenting a co-prosperity situation in which man and nature live in harmony. Unexpectedly, when the child saw it, he raised his legs abnormally, intending to drive these birds away. At this time, she finally stopped the child’s coaxing by drinking, without disturbing the birds walking on the grass for food, and restored again and again, the original peaceful and detailed situation. You can see how cute and adorable they are, but why do they have to drive away from them. It seemed that it was just at this time that the child slightly understood the meaning of caring for birds. It is also in the principle of harmony between man and nature. Then he no longer stood beside the road in the shape of roaring, watching where the birds were looking for food freely and happily. Looking at the birds on the grass, listening to the chirping sound outside the window, it makes people feel like being in the green field of birds and birds in the natural forest, like the clear stream adjacent to birds and accompanied by magpies, the gurgling wilderness in the mountain stream makes people’s hearts extremely clear and comfortable. Yes, when people get along with each other, people and forests, people and nature and small animals, they can achieve a kind of mutual trust, detail and peace, without interests, there is no situation when there is no dispute. What kind of prosperity and prosperity, peace and detail would it be? However, if we want to achieve this good situation, what kind of challenges will our human beings face? However, this is another puzzling but confusing issue, which is more worth pondering and considering. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…