Some Thoughts Concerning Marriage

These days, maybe by the end of the year, some migrant workers went home early, taking advantage of the New Year’s goods at home, and gathered their hands. Today, it is not the family to marry a daughter, tomorrow is the family to get married. One after another, they played with great fanfare and made a lot of ostentation and extravagance. The red inflatable arch was pulled out a few miles away. On the arch, there were unified pictures of Erlong opera beads, with white paper and black words, some blessings given by XXX attached to the huge picture; Firecrackers were set so high that the price was so high, as if there were a rush of raindrops in summer, and as if there were dense strafing on the battlefield. It seems to announce to the whole world that XXX is married today, and XXX is married again tomorrow. When they were married, they used either a unified white car or a unified black car. The bride and bridegroom took the car, the front of which was pasted with a big happy word on red paper, and then pasted all kinds of small and exquisite green pine, rose, lily and other flowers symbolizing auspiciousness on the body of the car with adhesive tape, dressed up as flowery, A new look, full of joy. Inside the car, the bridegroom and the bride were dressed neatly and sat in a tight manner. Each man was like Pan An, and the female was like the king wall. When outsiders looked at it, they couldn’t help admiring: a good pair of immortal family! Behind the wedding car, there were several sub-cars ranging from a dozen. Each car is also pasted with a big happy word on the front of the car with red paper. Starting up, no matter in the street or in the countryside, they will all pass by, which is extremely magnificent. Such a scene reminded me that more than ten years ago, a girlfriend was welcomed home by her boyfriend on such an occasion. At the beginning, it was so sweet in two times, like glue like paint, extremely good. A year later, they had a lovely son. Three years later, they had their own company and made a lot of money. From outsiders’s point of view, life was no better for them. Before they got married, they bought a house first. After they got married, they gave birth to a son. When they gave birth to a son and started a company, they made a lot of money. What else couldn’t be satisfied? But what was unexpected was that when their life was in full swing, the wind was windy, and the rain was rainy, but in the astonished eyes of people, they were so good to say goodbye, separate ways and go one side. What reason? It was because of the money that there were more money. Other younger and more beautiful women than their wives came to the door. The man couldn’t control it, and his heart was shaken. Their separation reminds me of their original days. At the beginning, it took a lot of effort for a man to marry a woman back home. Why did they say they were divided after several years? Today is the era of freedom, and there is no previous parents’ order or the words of the media. Unlike some binding marriages of Lu Xun and Guo Moruo in the last century. It is understandable to say that they betrayed and desolated their wives. But my girlfriend, they fell in love freely, but at that time they were wishful thinking. People’s marriage, then think of animal marriage. In the animal world, of course, human beings are also animals, just walking with two feet. They are superior animals that can think and do things that other animals can’t do. In daily life, we can often see swallows, butterflies and albatos flying in the air. There are also mandarin ducks, turtledoves and French fairy fishes who swim in the water for a lifetime. Walking on the ground, there are wolves and prairie voles accompanying each other. When they were pleased with each other, there was almost no monogamy or lifelong partnership. The male never gave the female any gorgeous clothes and beautiful jewelry. But in their lifetime, they really insisted on pure monogamy, waiting for and snuggling each other until they died. The most touching thing is to watch two big sculptures in Jin Yong’s Legend of Condor Heroes. One was shot by an arrow and fell down into the valley. The other saw his partner was gone and he didn’t want to live alone. He ran into a hard cliff, followed his partner and fell down the mountain and rock. In the animal world, their feelings, sometimes, a bird can compare people with the generals. It can be seen that the essence of marriage is not in form but in content. 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