After rain

Friend, do you believe it? God will open a door for you while closing a window. People always lose a lot in their life, but they also have a lot at the same time. Having a lot is certainly exciting, but what about losing? Facing the fact of loss, how do you treat it? What kind of attitude should we take? There is a story that a person is sitting on the deck of a ship reading newspapers. Suddenly a gust of wind blew his newly-bought hat into the sea. He touched his head with his hand, looked at the falling hat, and continued to read the newspaper. Another person was confused: Sir, your hat was blown into the sea! I know, thank you! He continued to read newspapers. But the hat is worth dozens of dollars! Yes, I am considering how to save money and buy another one! The hat is lost, I feel very distressed, but can it come back? After saying that, the man continued to read the newspaper. Indeed, what has been lost has already been lost. Why bother to make a fuss or take it to heart? There is another story. Many years ago, there was a particularly effective spring water in a remote town in France. Miracles often appeared, which could cure all kinds of diseases. One day, a veteran with a crutch and one leg missing but well-dressed walked across the street of the town one by one. The Townsman beside him said with a sympathetic tone: poor guy, does he want to pray to God for another leg? When the veterans heard this, he turned around and said to them: I am not praying to God for a new leg. I know that my leg will never be available again, I just want to tell God that my life is still full of vitality without one leg. We often face the fact of losing in life. The idea of this soldier to step back after losing is worthy of borrowing and signing. Failure is the mother of success, and the price you get is loss. Hawking was physically disabled, but he studied the black hole with tenacious spirit and created the world-famous black hole theorem. Helen was disabled since she was a child, but she wrote impressive works with strong perseverance. Beethoven was deaf in both ears, but he finished the best music which swept the world with amazing ideas, which made people unforgettable. This is fate. Fate makes them lose the basic health that a normal person should have, but they don’t bow to fate, face the loss tenaciously and challenge themselves. Maybe they lost the care of their relatives, maybe they lost the right to see this beautiful world, maybe they lost the opportunity to listen to the voice of the world, but they got more, they got the chance to be admired by the world and learned how to face the loss. In real life, many people have the experience of losing some important or beloved things, such as accidentally losing the newly paid salary and stealing their favorite bicycle, lovers who had been with each other for several years left at a stroke, etc. These metropolises cast a shadow on our psychology, and sometimes even suffered from it. The reason is that we didn’t adjust our mentality to face the loss, didn’t admit the loss psychologically, just indulged in something that no longer existed, and didn’t expect to create something new. People often say when comforting people who throw things: the old will not go, the new will not come. The fact is exactly like this. Instead of regretting for the lost bicycle, it is better to consider how to buy a new one. Instead of saying goodbye to your lover, it is better to cheer up and start again, to win a new love. Don’t complain about the sudden storms in life, but take a step back. They just remind us to stabilize our ship in the voyage of life. The road of life is originally bumpy, with high and low. Even if there is no big wind and rain on the road, there will be a time when it rains and sunny. Everyone has lost, but their mentality is different. Some people always show people repeatedly how good and precious the things he lost are, while many others are different. For example, after losing their original jobs, they are not always sad, but actively looking for new jobs; They believe that losing does not mean failure, and they can regain it after losing. This is the mentality that winners should possess. Therefore, success lies in the farthest place of life, and your side is full of thorns of failure. The premise of success is to experience failure. Losing is not terrible. What is terrible is that there is no courage to face losing. How many people have never recovered for a little failure, which worries their relatives. The bravest man is not brave to face the powerful enemy, but to face himself. Although Li Bai was dismissed, there was still a powerful man who could break his eyebrows and turn his back, which made me not happy. It reached the state of raising my head to invite the bright moon and making the movie into three people. Although Qu Yuan was ambitious and couldn’t stretch out, he still had his own happiness in people’s livelihood. Yu Duhao’s spirit of cultivating himself as usual made his innocence straight to death. Therefore, the former Holy place had been spread for hundreds of generations. Tao Yuanming abandoned the officialdom and lived an idyllic life of opening up the wasteland in the south and returning to the garden. He felt happy to return to nature after staying in the cage for a long time. Why not do such a deal? Facing the loss, we should smile coldly. Smiling, we have a new choice. Yes, it is not easy to choose again, but it is impossible to go back to the past. Why bother yourself. People should know how to adjust their mood. They should not stick to depression. It doesn’t matter if they don’t find it. When walking on the way of searching, they will forget the pain. After losing, there is really no good choice. Then be a indifferent person, playing the melody of life, feeling the silence, playing softly, living bravely and accompanying poems and books, it’s good to appreciate the wonderful things of my children and grandchildren, isn’t it? Facing the lost, don’t be sad, and don’t be greedy for old love any more. Write down the prosperity of flowers and plants, the great shore of mountains and rivers, the lingering of water flow, and look far away to the horizon, the ethereal flow in the extreme is our inner detachment, and this kind of life is also very full. OK, goodbye, my past, tomorrow, the sun is still bright. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. 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Father, I will tell you

Father, although you have been in another world for more than 20 years, I still miss you from time to time. I once wrote two articles with my father as the topic and published them in the mining machine newspaper. Father, do you know, I have published articles in newspapers for many times, and won the essay award twice. You must be happy for your daughter because of the certificate and bonus. After I retired, I went to the university for the aged, I have got my diploma and painter’s certificate after studying books and painting. I know you are more happy with your youngest son. After you passed away, he worked hard to finish his studies, cleaned the campus and toilets, sold seeds, and lived a very hard life. He survived. After work, he worked diligently and got praise from everyone all the time. He was not afraid of being dirty or tired, and worked hard. He was promoted from field head to township head, and now he is promoted to be the chairman of CPPCC in the District, and he was admitted to graduate school, while working and studying, I also bought a house and a shy daughter, who could be regarded as the first lady of our family and one meter seven tall. Father, laugh in the sky! He is very proud now. He has a special car. If you are alive, you will certainly be able to enjoy the scenery of a car. Your little daughter is also rich. After she was laid off, she opened a small wholesale point. We all inherited your advantages of diligence, diligence and fear of hardship. So after several years, she had little savings. She bought a house and a car this year. She also learned to drive and often drove a car to see mother. She is very filial, she will buy whatever mother needs. Her daughter has graduated from college and went to work. The daughter of your sixth daughter is more powerful. Last year, she went abroad on behalf of the unit. She is a senior white-collar worker engaged in technology. One of the six sons was a soldier, and the other went to college. They were all very promising. Now you have not only realized your dream when you were young, but also your own car. Ziliang also had a good life. He inherited your career. He drove a taxi and you pulled a rickshaw. His daughter Fangfang graduated from university and was admitted to graduate school, what is more gratifying is that Ziliang also has a handsome son, who was admitted to university this year. This child is very sensible. You have been looking at Ziliang to have a son, and your original expectation has been reached. Ziliang also bought a two-story building in the city, and added another floor this year. I am happy for her. Now you can rest assured! There are also some unsatisfactory things. You must know that your eldest son was not filial when you were alive. He was still the same after you left. We didn’t give him the same thing. Don’t be angry either, bless him! Your children live almost the same life, basically every family has college students. My daughter is a teacher, and my son is also very arrogant. He is a policeman, driving a police car, wearing a police uniform, he is very handsome, I tell you that he is still a small head. My son said: If you live to this day, you have to cure my grandpa’s disease, which was too poor at that time. Self-Care said to us, tell you about the person you care about most. My mother is also very good, but she is not able to move. She can eat and drink, and she often sings hymns when she has nothing to do, on Sunday, your son drove mother to church, and sometimes your little daughter-in-law drove us there. At this time, mother couldn’t close her mouth happily. It was Xiangling’s son who took care of her when I didn’t come here. He peed for her and cooked on the floor diligently. Your son lives in another house and will come to see mother after work. Don’t worry, father, we will all honor mother. You must protect us. Baoyou, your son is promoted step by step, and is clear. Father, I will say to you: I will be your daughter in the next life, no matter how dignified you are, but your integrity and diligence are enough for me to enjoy for life, it’s OK: I remembered you when others sang the song [father]. When I was young, I often sat on my father’s shoulder, and my father climbed the ladder, my father is the cow who pulls the cart. I can’t forget that the coarse tea and light Rice raised me up. I can’t forget a long sigh. When I was a child, I also sat on my father’s shoulder to watch the lamp. My father carried me to see a doctor in the middle of the night, and my father sent me, father Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. 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