Who hurt our children?

Last Friday was the day when children returned to school to get their transcripts. Although the state now makes three orders and five applications and clearly points out that students’ academic scores should not be published, the scores are always a double-edged sword hanging on children’s heads. I got my grades back, and some people were happy and some were worried. Naturally, parents are very happy with their good grades; Those who do not have good grades go home in a low mood, which also causes their parents to be unhappy, worried and worried. This is not the case, and there is a regretful and painful thing: a child with good grades has suddenly dropped from the first place to the twentieth place, so the teacher talked with him, after the conversation, the teacher talked to the parents again. Before the parents went to school, the bad news came: the child jumped off a building and committed suicide! Although the child did not lose his life, his spine was fractured and a large area of brain accumulated water. Due to the serious injury, he had to transfer from People’s Hospital to Beijing hospital for treatment. The director of education followed him personally, and all the medical expenses were borne by the Education Bureau. However, no matter how good the medical conditions were, could the precious life of the child be saved? I heard that in order to create a good learning environment for the child, the child’s parents never watched TV plays when they came home, and they all took a book there and studied with the child, even if you don’t want to read it, you should also give your child a reading style. Parents did a good job, but they ignored one thing, that is, they did not give effective psychological guidance to children while teaching them to master book knowledge. There are many exams in life, which is just the beginning of life. In this world, there is no general who always wins. Who can guarantee that he will always be the first? After all, there are people outside the world. However, this child was too fragile in spirit. His parents didn’t tell him, and he couldn’t understand a truth: in this world, nothing could be as precious as life, since I am not afraid of death and my academic performance is a little backward, what is it? I think the parents of this child now must prefer their children not to take the first place in the exam, but also want their children to live well. We should be alert not only to parents, but also to teachers. Khao, Kao, Examination is the magic weapon of teachers; Points, points, points, the lifeblood of students, such an era should have been past. Even if a student with excellent quality and learning can succeed in the future, his ability to adapt to the society is very low. How can he become a pillar of the country? I still remember a piece of news I read not long ago: a peasant couple who worked outside, because they just graduated from primary school and knew well the hardship of working, put their hopes on their children, I once taught my child to read words, but the child was unwilling to read words. The child’s father hit him with a stick, and it was conceivable that the child was killed alive by his own father. Can you say that this father does not love his children? Love, he loves too much, but he doesn’t know how to guide children correctly. He ignores children’s nature of playing, which leads to another human tragedy. I also remembered the case of Xu Li killing his mother that shocked the whole country. Xu Li’s parents were both senior intellectuals. In order to learn, Xu Li’s parents restricted all Xu Li’s freedom. Under their high-pressure policy, xu Li felt very desperate. Finally, because of a very small thing, Xu Li broke out. He killed his biological mother cruelly. The bloody reality makes us feel the heaviness of education. We can’t help sighing: What’s wrong with today’s education? Everyone knows that the national policy is to reduce the burden vigorously, but the burden is not reduced, but the students’ schoolbags become heavier. Although there is no class on weekends in the morning and evening, the children are more tired than before. On the one hand, they have to deal with the teacher’s homework examination; On the other hand, they have to finish the homework assigned by their parents, and even take part in various tutorial classes. Although today’s children eat well and dress well, however, there was no beautiful childhood. Even children came out one by one with vegetable color on their faces. It was not malnutrition, but that they had no chance to run in the sun and had a happy childhood of their own. In fact, quality education has been started for many years. The slogan is loud, but how many people can really implement it? There are several schools? As long as the policy of the college entrance examination is not changed, the baton of education will not deviate from the direction of the examination. On the surface, the burden on children is relieved, but in fact, the burden on their shoulders is heavier. Because almost every family is the only child, and a child shoulders the hope of several generations of the whole family. If a child fails, it is a 100% failure. Parents can’t stand such failure, this kind of failure is not allowed to happen to oneself. Therefore, they only have to impose their own will on the children, and in addition, the teachers in the school should have grades in order to evaluate their professional titles, and the school will also exert certain pressure on the teachers in order to have more students, how can children bear their thin shoulders? Because of an unsatisfactory result, I committed suicide, which is the sorrow of today’s education. It is not a scientific way of education to blindly pursue achievements, regardless of the endurance that children should have. Today, we should be alert: Who on earth is hurting our children! Like (prose editor: yuiran) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Fireworks easy cold

The first thing to go to work every day is not to sit seriously and work hard, but to open the space. Let’s see who published a new statement or log. When you encounter those striking or similar words, you will focus your eyes and chew them carefully. Today, I opened it as usual, and saw a good friend’s updated log wrote: Although the distance is very far away, every signature, every talk, every photo uploaded over the past few years, and he will read every diary, and he can accurately guess that my mood is not on time one day recently. He must be the first one to ask. Naturally thinking of the words “Fireworks are easy to be cold”, Baidu found it was Jay Chou’s song, also known as “Galan rain”, after searching. There are two lyrics that the old hometown is full of rain and deep rain. I heard that you are still guarding the lonely city. Looking at these two lyrics, thinking of the drizzle and lonely ancient city, loneliness swept over like the northwest wind, it took root in the streets and lanes where I was located, but I seemed to find that this Bud was not only staying in my city, but also like those unbridled people who were playing here at this moment, suddenly it drifted to another scene and stopped. Most people can’t resist its temptation. The same is true for my friends. In my eyes, she used to be an optimistic, positive and capable girl. But since she graduated from school, her talk on QQ has always revealed a trace of loneliness and melancholy. Only a few days after a month can the clouds and mist be removed to show the brightness from the sun. I always feel that it is not fair to point the sin to her alone, because she is not alone in such a situation? If you want to doubt, you can open the space to find out by yourself, not to mention your gloomy face, maybe you can peep at the strong wind and rainstorm. When some people publish these statements online while others are in the potential water, let’s conclude for a moment that they operate secretly. In fact, most people still don’t like to sneak QQ into the bottom of the water. After all, there is not enough oxygen in the water, but they will suffocate and die after staying for a long time. But most people still do this. The breath of work and life has already made them forget the lack of oxygen. After all, this oxygen is more than nothing to say in front of them! They often bubbled on the water from the original to taste the leisurely tranquility in the water, and occasionally came across a few bright fish to chat with others; or those who master its routine understand that it is used to the fish at the bottom of the water to talk with it actively, and if it is interested, it will reply a few words, when you are not interested, let others think that the bottom of the water is so dark that you can’t open the line. While others are always unaccustomed to diving, they always wander on the water, they worry that the diving or non-diving people they care about may find themselves at an appropriate moment. Or they think that no matter how they wander, no fish will come up to talk about it, because after all, everyone has been used to silence, and what is the difference between diving and not diving! But I am not used to the darkness in the water all the time, so I always like to blow a few bubbles on the water, no matter whether others see it or not. I remember that once I went on a business trip and didn’t go online for a long time. A few days later, I received a call from my cousin. She asked anxiously: where have you been? Why don’t you bubble? I said I was on a business trip, and then the other end of the phone seemed to be suddenly relieved to answer: that’s good, I thought you ran away with someone else? I smiled and said: that is what good people can do. I always feel that I am not a good person. elopement is just a legend to my sister. Sometimes when I see those hot atmosphere, I will be more firm in this statement. I always feel that everyone is just like the mouse who sees the cat, doing a lot of activities at night, but when they see the cat, they all hide in the hole, timid and look forward. Jay Chou continued to sing in “fireworks is easy to be cold”: it rained in succession, old hometown, grass and deep rain in succession. I heard that you are still guarding the lonely city. Whether you are online or bubbling, although you are no longer casual and go hand in hand, the fish said: let’s go!. But at least someone is watching whether you have left or not! One day you didn’t go online on time, there was a person who asked why the first time? Rain in succession old hometown grass and trees deep rain in succession I heard that you are still guarding the lonely city. Is the fireworks really cold? Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. Maybe because of a certain commitment, or because of a certain… Be good at listening to different voices and opinions On October 6th, I published a travel essay: “beautiful autumn scenery”, which was obtained by many literary websites… Read The Bridges of Madison County “When the white moth spreads its wings, you can come to me at any time”. I think, if I am a man, be accepted… From today on, I want to be happy I read “the biography of Hulan River” long time ago, and I remember that I was really in a heavy mood for a long time. Which characters caused me… Sick time I sneezed one after another these days. I said someone was reading me and others said I was sick. Finally, the doctor also said I was…

Women need to care, men also need to care

Hello, I don’t know your name, let’s call you that for the moment. First of all, I want to thank you for the happiness you have brought me over a month. Your net name is that happiness goes with each other. If you get good, you will be as famous as others. Although we have never met before, I can feel what kind of woman you are. That day, I said you were a woman like water, so you said you could do it. You should know that water is soft and rigid. Water can not only moisten all things and make them grow as much as possible, but also not fight for utility with all things. It can be said that it is the most gentle and kind. At the same time, it is also the strongest and most aggressive. That day, after you told me about your confusion, it was always entangled in my heart. Because I had already treated you as a friend, your business became my business imperceptibly. From the contact with you, I know that you are a capable, beautiful, enthusiastic and generous person, because of this, there is no lack of admirers and pursuers beside you and as I told you that day, you are at the age of charming and dignified. In addition, you have nothing to blame for your family contribution. No matter relatives or friends, you have handled it in good order. In the eyes of all, you are virtuous, gentle, and knowledgeable. Secondly, you still have a relaxed, appropriate and profitable business to do. Maybe you will say that all of these come from your years of hard work. Yes, a little more, you are still a strong woman! When you leave, the car will fly, and when you enter, the servant (at least there are waiters) will serve you. How noble. In addition to the particularity of your career, as time goes by, it is inevitable that you don’t have any complaints or unhappiness in your heart. Unconsciously, he wants to talk to you without hesitation, because you always have your reasons and explanations. However, once a man is annoyed, he just wants to drink and make himself confused. In fact, he loves you, but his love is slowly hidden in your every confident (or high above) words. There is a sentence that everyone understands: behind a successful man, there must be an extraordinary woman. Similarly, behind a successful woman, there must be an extraordinary man. And he is willing to be ordinary. I have been supporting you silently behind you. And his love for home has not decreased at all, which is enough to show that he loves you and this family. Of course, no matter how beautiful a person is, there are many worries behind her, and no matter how annoying or worried you are, you will not tell your relatives and people around you, so sometimes you will feel inexplicable loneliness and loneliness. So you fell in love with bustle, or playing cards and dancing. Therefore, you like to chat with a group of people from all over the world who are acquainted or not, or to say that you like loneliness and loneliness. Many times you even don’t care that he is beside you, but you are happy in your online chat. Imagine that your love in those years was not vigorous, but also the appearance of a talented woman, free love. Do you know, maybe in your husband’s heart, he would rather live the day when he rode a motorcycle and you hugged him and sat behind him. How considerate you were then. Life is not as rich as it is now, but it is full of flavor. Each other is willing to make any sacrifice for each other, and the only desire is to make more money. Let the other party live a good life. For a long time, the secular concept is that men are the only ones, while women are the only ones, and you can say that you are running neck and neck, which is certainly very good. As you said, because of the geographical and human nature, you have succeeded and become rich people. You can spend a lot of money without beating your heart or blinking your eyes. In the eyes of many people, this society has everything if you have money. In fact, maybe your husband’s feelings are the most important. Of course, you always think so, but in the impetuous reality, it may be transferred slowly. Therefore, I hope you can care more about what he thinks and how he feels. Good? No longer talking about high and low for some trivial matters, Dispute win. Instead, keep silent appropriately or change the topic. Because maybe too many times, the adjustment of atmosphere is in women’s hands, or women can better grasp the atmosphere. Perhaps, you will feel that you are wronged. It is clearly that he is cold and hot to you. Why do you account for you. Yes, it is not easy for men to fight outside, let alone women to start a business, which is even more difficult, and they have also made their own careers and achievements. Only you can truly feel the taste of this. How sad and how difficult it is, is it because I can speak a few words! And after success, people will suffer from envy and even misunderstanding. As a beloved man, women certainly hope to get his care and support. Whether it is material or emotional, of course, from your current situation, it is more emotional comfort and sincere trust! However, he may travel outside most of the time. No matter whether you are tired or not during the day, he will go home to take care of the housework and accompany his son to finish his homework. When he is free, he also wants to find someone to pour out his joys and sorrows in his heart. At this time, he may be too busy to answer your phone, or he may neglect it for a while, the cellphone forgot to charge for several days in a row. If you encounter similar situations, you will surely think wildly and constantly upgrade and expand. Fortunately, your reason defeated your impulse, which didn’t make you bear the title of tigress. Here I would like to congratulate you on maintaining your good image in your life circle. When he was looking forward to his coming back, he looked at his busy life and looked at your man with smile and peace. How much love was in his heart. There is no question like the roar of a lion in Hedong, but only the expression of bitterness. Your man may be a rough man who doesn’t understand the amorous feelings, or a simple and honest man. And as long as you have him around, you will not care about all the previous assumptions, and everything will disappear. The family is talking and laughing, happy, this is happiness! Know? Finally, I wish you happiness forever and happiness forever! 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Road had?

No matter it is the main road or the path, whether it is the spacious Highway or the Yangchang trail in the country, every road is day and night, silently bearing the pressure from the outside world. Whether it is cold or hot, it stretches silently and is trampled by others. In this era of rapid economic development, the understanding of building roads first if you want to be rich has been deeply rooted in everyone’s heart from the slogan posted on the wall. Our Township is located between the two towns in the north and south, which is the inevitable passage connecting the North and South roads, and there are a lot of traffic. A few years ago, this road was really worthy of the name of sunny and gray Road, rainy and cement road, which was bumpy and difficult to walk. The Road of more than ten kilometers usually takes one hour, which brings great difficulties to people’s travel and the transportation of crops. Villagers and drivers all complained. At that time, what they heard more was people’s scolding on this road.. In October, 2006, the 7-meter-wide cement road connecting the two towns was finally completed and opened to traffic, and the countryside was finally connected to the cement road! Joy is presented on people’s faces, and more notes are attached to actions. In places that were originally very rich, agricultural vehicles and motorcycles were as common as bicycles in the early 1990 s, almost every family had them, and more motorcycles and electric vehicles were still pouring into the rural market in large quantities. The simple and flexible driving of motorcycles brings great convenience to people’s life. For men, women, adults and teenage children, almost everyone loves motorcycles and cannot live without motorcycles. You even have to ride a motorcycle when you go to the public toilet. Yes, the feeling of fluttering clothes and long hair on a smooth road is really good! I look at this road every day. I always feel that the road has been widened, but people’s hearts have narrowed. The speed has increased, and worries have climbed into people’s hearts. The motorcycle was so fast that the small village was not big at first. Sometimes when I was sitting in the house, I heard the sound of the car and it was still at the entrance of the village. I couldn’t see whether the driver was a man or a woman, the car had disappeared in sight, listening to the sound of the car gradually moving away, a heart which hung up with it could not calm down all the time. Of course, what I am most afraid of hearing is the sound of emergency braking, and I am most afraid of seeing the following scene. Most agricultural vehicles in rural areas are repaired hastily only in the busy season of spring and autumn, and they are driven out to work. Many of them are in the condition of ringing everywhere except the Horn does not sound. The noise from themselves makes it difficult for drivers to hear the voice from the outside world. More drivers only know little about traffic rules and driving techniques. The labor force was in short supply during the busy farming. It was still a teenager who had already driven a farm car to help his family work. Although his thinking and movements were very agile, he was inexperienced after all, all worrying. Besides, it is true that traffic accidents happen frequently. I remember when I was young, when I went to school every day, adults always told me to study hard. After more than twenty years, this sentence was changed to walking aside, passing by to see the car! After a long time, my six-year-old son sometimes shouted mischievously before I spoke: I know, walk aside, pass by and watch the car! This is a kind of helplessness. How fragile human life is in front of this bloody fact. After dinner, people gradually focus on people with bad heart on this road. It is really impossible to live by the road. Listening to the voice from the road every day can torture a person to death. Alas, this road, it is better not to repair it! Take a look at the road extending day after day, I don’t know how many footprints you have left. No! There is nothing wrong with you. What you use is great! People Ah! Let’s learn more about traffic laws and driving techniques to restore life to peace. Children racing! Slow down, it’s really heartbreaking to see you hurt! Like (prose editor: prose online) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…