Happy birthday to me

Lunar January 12 is my birthday (the solar calendar is February 10th). Early that day, my wife cooked a bowl of egg longevity noodles for me and brought them to the bed for me to eat. Since I came to this world for more than 40 years, my birthday has been like this. When I was young, it was my mother who cooked egg longevity noodles for me to celebrate my birthday; Later on, when I got married, my wife took the burden. Since then, this bowl of egg longevity noodles has been boiled for more than twenty years, never stopped. My daughter-in-law said to me last night: Dad, you are one year old again tomorrow! I smiled and said: Yes! I’m one year old again! My daughter-in-law remembered my birthday because when she and her son got engaged last year, it happened to be lunar January 12, and I celebrated my birthday that day! So a few days earlier, she began to talk about my birthday! His son was a heartless guy. He could only remember his father’s birthday when he called friends on his birthday. Of course, the same is true for me as a father. I only remember his tenth birthday. Only his mother can remember the exact day! My daughter remembered my birthday as expected. Maybe she was a little busy at work, so she never received the message of happy birthday from her! There are also two or three friends who will greet me with Happy Birthday, most of whom are ladies. A girl friend told me yesterday: tomorrow is twelve, your birthday is so early in the morning, she sent me a text message: Wish you a happy birthday! Of course, most of my girlfriends who can remember my birthday are friends who are so good that they almost talk about marriage or admire each other. In the ups and downs of our life together for many years, it is this happy birthday that lets us know each other’s position and warmth in each other’s heart! Although these two or three girlfriends will remember my birthday and send me happy birthday messages, I can’t remember their birthday. Luckily, they will remind me when their birthday is coming, and let me reply to them hypocritically: Of course I remember your birthday, I am preparing to send you a happy birthday message! Most of my girlfriends are tolerant. Although they know clearly that I didn’t remember their birthday, they always say: I know what you remember! Good busy! At this time, I will feel a little disgusted with myself and think I am should remember their birthday! Using my brain and heart instead of pen and notebook, I still couldn’t remember their birthday in the coming year! I know that men are always selfish enough to remember their birthday, like my son and me. Although we all want to, we can never remember others’ birthday. Even if it is my wife and children, my girlfriend is beautiful, so my wife never celebrates her birthday because of me. When I ask about their birthday every year, they always smile and say: women, what birthday! Having said that, they can always remember my birthday and cook a bowl of egg birthday noodles or send me a birthday greeting! Therefore, since my mother gave birth to me, my birthday has always been so happy! In everyone’s life journey, there will always be a group of people who care about you and give you happiness. This is a kind of happiness. Many people, including ancestors, parents, brothers, sisters, friends, bosom friends and colleagues, will remember your birthday and send you happy birthday greetings. Therefore, people’s life is mostly happy; Therefore, people who live in this world are all worthy of others’ care! Of course, sometimes, there will be some people who are too busy or born forgetful to send you happy birthday wishes. However, you still need to be happy! Because, today is your birthday! Your life starts from today of a certain year. Whether you have money or not, whether you succeed or not, you must have a deep self-love for yourself! This self-love is the key to your happy life. On your birthday, you have to say to yourself: Happy birthday! Happy birthday to me! Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. 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Where is happiness

Where is happiness? What kind of life is happiness? When people reach middle age, they don’t have the recklessness and frivolous when they are young. Instead, they like to recall leisurely and think about what happiness is secretly? —— Every day when I go to work, I will pour a cup of green tea and wait quietly for an old man who is thin and lonely. He always walks slowly. Go to my duty room, sit down, have a cigarette, and have a sip of herbal tea. I am his only audience. Sometimes I was too busy to talk with him, and he wouldn’t disturb me, so he sat silently. After I finished my work, I talked about his military career; Talked about his story of resisting U.S. aggression and aiding Korea; when talking about his daughter at hand, he was sometimes passionate and waving with his withered hands; Sometimes he was depressed, silent and silent,. The old man is like a child, occasionally laughing repeatedly; Occasionally there are tears in his eyes, the old man’s identity is noble, and he does not worry about eating or wearing. Daughter is downtown prominent lawyers, son-in-law is of Procurators General, grandson Nanjing military medical undergraduates, seemingly good happiness, good happiness. Walking into him gently, the old man was lonely, lonely and helpless —- the children were busy with their own affairs, and they could not come back to see him unless the Spring Festival. In a flash, they hurried away again. See, think. Maybe the bottom line of happiness is to get along with each other day and night and love each other. Without the companionship of relatives, happiness may be the end of helplessness. Pay close attention to the old people around you, please don’t leave any regrets to regret. In fact, they don’t need your money and goods, nor do they care about staying together forever. Maybe just one greeting is enough. When you are leisurely in the shade of the sunset; When you are listening to music and tasting coffee gracefully —— please remember that there may be an old man at home who is looking forward to your warmth. Accompanying him, they would feel satisfied even if they didn’t say a word. Sometimes people don’t know happiness in happiness, which is solid. Whenever I think of the song sung by the singer Yin Xiumei, where is happiness: where is happiness? My friend told you that it is neither under the moonlight nor in the greenhouse. Where is happiness? Friend wow, tell you, it is in your ideal, it is in your sweat, where is happiness? My friend told you that it was neither under the moonlight nor in the greenhouse ——- I would be deeply touched. Every night, a cup of fragrant tea touches the raw fragrance. Sitting beside the computer, I boil my thoughts with words. The light wind outside the window holds the enchanting moonlight, running around, whispering, singing, silky, wisps of happiness come with pleasure. My heart slept quietly in the dream of stars. At this moment, my tenderness is like water. I miss you, do you know? Dear, you are always busy with your life, and you are not stopping. I feel so sad when I see you go home and fall asleep. You always say, “I am not suffering, but there is no way, for your mother and son, seeing the child grow up day by day, he wants a house, a car, and a wife in the future. How can he create a warm home for him? I am not a big boss, but just like a chicken, hug and grasp, ——- In fact, husband, I want to tell you that I have never envied the wealth and wealth of a person, but I just want you to be healthy and healthy, I just hope that you will go home early every day, and then we will walk slowly on the Country Road hand in hand when we are with me in high spirits. It is enough to be happy to watch the sunset glow. Who let me meet you at the most beautiful moment, who let me meet you at the corner of the crossroad of life, love each other, then we are the same passers-by, friends in need, my husband, please don’t forget the responsibility of being heavy again and again. Let’s carry it together and help each other through this period of life. Do you remember that day when it rained heavily outside? You went to Anhui on business and called me at night: Did you have dinner? The weather is too hot, pay attention to your body —- hearing your call, I cried at that time, and I couldn’t figure out whether it was heart pain or stomach pain. It started slowly, then it became more and more painful, and the pain was sweating like a pig, roll on the bed — you call the first aid station at once. When you arrive at the hospital, the doctor says that people will be in danger later. It turns out that the gallstone Stone runs to the bile duct —- at midnight, you come back, standing in front of me wet: can’t you take good care of yourself? Ah. While holding my hand, I held it nervously. I heard what you blamed and knew that you really cared about me. My heart was sweet and I felt very happy. Once you said to me: in the world, except your parents understand that you love you, the rest is that I love you most. Are you satisfied? At that time, I smiled and disagreed. Maybe I didn’t find an opportunity or a reason to prove it. Seeing many families around me, they can’t get rid of many temptations in the secular world. Couples can work together to share difficulties and hardships, but they can’t share prosperity, from quarrel to disturbance, from scold to beating, from hatred to disgust to separation, it really dispersed as soon as walking, and forgot when thinking about it. A couple is just like two puppets. They are on the same stage together. One is indispensable, and the other is not perfect. Only by carefully maintaining each other step by step can they complement each other and be colorful. The two of us are mediocre couples, who only know the life word by word and never know how to measure the sentiment of flowers and flowers with romance. For example, every Valentine’s Day, my husband would pretend to be deaf and dumb, and never bought me a bunch of roses. Even if I mentioned it, he would say leisurely: Don’t you know? According to the ancient saying, flowers are given to beauty, but you are not a beauty. Why are you busy? Calm down while you go. The Rose can only be seen, not touched {thorns} and not eaten, it is better to buy a kilo of meat for the whole family to have a warm meal. Besides, the children are so old that they are still fashionable at a very old age. Sister, you can face the reality calmly! Haha! The romance filled in my heart will be diluted and lost by his incomprehensible tone instantly. Look at This is the life of ordinary people. There is only firewood, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. You can’t imagine the romantic feelings of playing, chess, calligraphy, painting, poetry and hops. I have never experienced the passion and craze of Ferris wheel rotating to the highest point, which is so indifferent as water. Marriage is really hard to tell what happiness is. I only know that one side is around and I don’t know love. I feel love is so far away and ethereal; One day, if one side is not around, my heart will be empty, it will hurt, and it will be God-loving is happiness, and it will be as sweet as flowers, as elegant as wind —– Where is happiness? Let people unconsciously, can’t see or touch, maybe it’s in health, maybe it’s in getting along day and night, maybe the happiness filled with time is in the ordinary light around —- never leave! Like (prose editor: yuiran) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. Whether your mood is like a year, or… Forever military dream Forever military Dream (Ma Xiaochun, Kangle county, Gansu province) memories are like meteors, passing through the unmarked and blurred eyes, and the outline gradually… Spring rain I like spring rain like everything on the Earth. Just after the new year, the sky began to rain. I really like the spring in Jiangnan… Plucked the snowflakes of Dreams (modified) Near the new year, the first snow fell. I was surprised to read a long scroll in the morning, the white one is snow, and the gray one is tree… Self The fashion is transient, and the style is permanent. Things that can shine on others may not be put here. In…