Correct view of own

The story of a broken bucket is known by many people: it is said that a farmer has two buckets, and he carries two buckets to draw water by the river with a shoulder pole every day. There was only a crack in one of the two buckets, so every time I got home, the bucket would leak to half of the bucket, while the other bucket was always full. In this way, for two years, day after day, farmers could only take home a bucket and a half of water from the river every day. The intact bucket is very proud of its perfection, while the cracked bucket is naturally ashamed of its defects and inability to do the job. After two years of failure, one day by the river, the bucket with cracks finally plucked up the courage to open its mouth to the owner: I feel very ashamed, because there are cracks on my side and water leaks all the way, can only bear half a bucket of water home. The farmer replied: Have you noticed? The road edge on your side is full of flowers, while there are no flowers on the other side? I knew from the very beginning that you had leaks, so I scattered flower seeds on the road edge on your side. On our way home with water every day, you water them. For two years, I often pick flowers from the roadside to dress up my dining table. If it was not because of your so-called defects, how could I have beautiful flowers to dress up my home? What kind of enlightenment does the story of this broken bucket give us? Each of us is better than the bucket with cracks, and each of us has shortcomings and shortcomings in one way or another. If we have an inclusive heart, know how to discover each other’s strengths, and can foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, our life will certainly become more relaxed, happy and colorful. This involves a question of how to treat yourself correctly. To treat oneself correctly means to have an objective and comprehensive evaluation of oneself, which can not only see achievements and strengths, but also see shortcomings and deficiencies, so as to maintain a peaceful mind and a positive mental state. Philosophical principles also tell us that everything in the world has two sides, both its advantages and advantages, as well as its limitations and shortcomings. The long side can promote its continuous progress and development, while the short side will hinder its progress; Even the long side can’t develop without restraint. Otherwise, it will go to its opposite side and eventually evolve into the side that hinders the development of things. This is not only an objective existence, but also an irrefutable truth. Even human beings who can be called the spirit of all things can’t be excluded. The advantages of the strong include disadvantages, because they are strong, but they are too self-respecting and proud; The disadvantages of the weak contain advantages. Without fame, there will be no face and no burden, all possible means can be taken. However, the world is pursuing perfection and making up for deficiencies all the time, but there is never and never absolute perfect things in the world. It is also the spread and expansion of people’s desire to pursue perfection that arouses endless longing and yearning and promotes the continuous development and progress of things. Therefore, people who have advantages should not be proud and complacent, but should give full play to their advantages, avoid disadvantages and achieve themselves; People who have disadvantages should not be self-abased and self-abased, but should inspire their spirits, turn the bad into the good and create yourself; Don’t be afraid of your own shortcomings and mistakes, let alone regard your own limitations and shortcomings as shame. Maybe this is your own characteristics and strengths. Only by facing the limitations and deficiencies of oneself frankly and treating the shortcomings and deficiencies of oneself correctly can we truly understand how to foster advantages and avoid disadvantages and how to make continuous development and progress; moreover, in the process of perfecting moral character and cultivating personality, we should also pay attention to this point, and strive to be rational but not elastic, gentle but not indecisive, upright but able to understand others’ mistakes. Only in this way can we truly improve and enhance our image and taste. A person can’t see himself correctly, which equals to a fatal psychological disease for people. This kind of psychological disease is usually manifested as the following symptoms: overestimate your performance and strengths. Once people overestimate themselves, they tend to be blindly optimistic, thus putting themselves in an inappropriate position, thus losing others’ trust and support and finally being abandoned by others. If you estimate your ability too much, you will lack confidence, so that you can step forward and do nothing. As a result, you will stagnate on the way forward, become a burden to others, and finally be eliminated by The Times. Take the setbacks and mistakes in the progress too seriously. The result of enlarging the mistakes in this way is to make myself at a loss. I lack my own opinions and dare not take responsibility for everything, and finally lose the qualification to move forward. I can’t see my own shortcomings and deficiencies. People who can’t see their own shortcomings will avoid diseases and doctors. Even common shortcomings will turn into the biggest mistake in the end, which will eventually ruin their own future. I can’t treat my own syndrome correctly. Its main performance is that it not only overestimates its own achievements and strengths, but also fails to see its own shortcomings and deficiencies. It is arrogant and pretentious. When the study and work went well, I forgot that I was several kilos and several kilos. I regarded myself as a meritorious official. I dared to say anything and do anything, and nobody paid attention to it. However, if the position is promoted or the material benefits are not satisfied, there will be a serious psychological imbalance, which will not be satisfied with anything, and will not be satisfied with anything, complaining and complaining, finally, they lost their morale and went to degeneration. No matter which one of the above is, it should not be underestimated. Any one of them may ruin our life and notice whether we have similar symptoms all the time. We should find and correct them in time. To treat yourself correctly is simple to say and difficult to do. Once a person has some achievements, it is inevitable that he will raise his tail; And if he makes some mistakes, he will easily fall into the bitter sea of self-abasement. It is not easy to see yourself correctly, but it is not impossible. According to people’s practical experience, we can summarize the following points: to treat ourselves correctly, we must first find our own position. Some people will say that if you are a decent living person, don’t you even know what you are doing? Yes, of course, sensible people account for the majority, but stupid people are not uncommon, and there are also many people who pretend to be confused with understanding. Some people are complacent when they are successful and have some achievements, and their minds are easy to be confused. Can such people not make mistakes? We should correctly analyze our own advantages and disadvantages. We should estimate our achievements and strengths correctly. A person who can achieve something must have his own unique ability, but opportunities are also very important. Therefore, we must not simply emphasize our own subjective efforts and forget the conditions created for you by others and society. We should correctly estimate our own shortcomings and deficiencies. The existence and deficiency of a person or even mistakes are not terrible, but what is terrible is that they are completely unaware of it or turn a blind eye to it. Some people just don’t pay attention to these small problems and finally make a big mistake. Treat yourself correctly and accept an imperfect self. Everyone in life may do something wrong or say something wrong, including your classmates, your elders, and some great men. It is unrealistic to always want people to say that they are good, so that they can only get into the corner. You should know that extreme perfection will cause a strong sense of inferiority and always feel that you are inferior to others. Therefore, you should be more tolerant of yourself. You don’t have to be too careful in the trivial matters of life. You should accept an imperfect self. Here, we must correctly treat the issue of wealth and wealth. Confucius said that it is human nature to hope wealth and hate poverty. Wealth and dignitaries are what everyone wants, but if you get them in improper ways, you will not enjoy them well; everyone hates poverty and lowliness, but if we get rid of it by improper methods and ways, we will not get rid of it. At the same time, Confucius told me how to deal with the rich and the poor, saying that people without benevolence cannot stay in poverty long enough, nor can they stay in peace long enough, because without benevolence, they will not cause chaos or extravagance and extravagance. Only benevolent people know to be content with benevolence, and wise people will also do benevolence, because benevolence is useful to them. Confucius said that we should enjoy poverty and be rich and polite. Acting for the pursuit of interests will lead to more resentment. Treat yourself correctly and stick to your own path. People live with personality, you are you, don’t change yourself because of others’ words, you are not living for others. If you change it again and again, what about your original self? Are you still you? Maybe you are already another person, no longer your original own. Please remember, don’t care too much about others’ opinions. Sometimes, the more you care, the easier you will lose. Of course, this statement also has a one-sided point. It is inevitable that life will encounter others’ denial of oneself. At this time, it depends on whether you are wrong or right. If you are wrong, you should accept others’ statements. If you think you are right, then you will stick to it, but you must judge right and wrong. Always pay attention to your own weight. The so-called self-respect is nothing more than self-discipline and self-care. In other words, don’t spoil yourself. An upright person does not cherish his reputation. Only those despicable little people who lost their morality didn’t care about the spurn of the common people, and didn’t speak of shame or face. Treat yourself correctly and don’t limit your personality development. In life, when a person cares too much about others’ comments, he will restrain himself instead. Sometimes I may feel nervous, self-reproach or distressed for someone’s eyes or tone, and the result is that I am wrong again. Going on like this may limit the development of personality. How to get out of this misunderstanding? The correct attitude should be like this: everyone in life may do something wrong or say something wrong, including your classmates, your elders, and some great men. It is unrealistic to always want people to say that they are good, so that they can only get into the corner. There are many things and differences in life that are not suitable to be judged by right or wrong. They just reflect people’s own opinions. Everyone is qualified to express his own wishes. Therefore, we should change the rigid thinking mode of right or wrong, black or white. You can have a chat with your colleagues and bosom friends and ask them whether they are so concerned about your words and deeds and whether they will be impressed by your right and wrong every time? In this way, you will know clearly. Treat yourself correctly, but also treat the issue of rich and poor correctly. Hope wealth hates poverty, which is human nature. Wealth and dignitaries are what everyone wants, but if you get them in improper ways, you will not enjoy them well. Everyone hates poverty and lowliness, but if we get rid of it by improper methods and ways, we will not get rid of it. Confucius said: wealth and wealth are what people want, and they don’t get what they want, and they don’t get what they want; Poverty and lowliness are what people want, and they don’t get what they want and don’t go. At the same time, Confucius also told me how to deal with the rich and the poor, the noble and the low: those who are not benevolent can not make an appointment for a long time, and they can not enjoy their advantages. Benevolent Anren, knower Liren. It means that people without benevolence and virtue cannot stay in poverty long enough, nor can they stay in peace long enough, because without benevolence and virtue, they will not cause chaos or extravagance and extravagance. Only benevolent people know to be content with benevolence, and wise people will also do benevolence, because benevolence is useful to them. On this issue, we want to be rich and not dirty, poor and not cheap, and to be a decent person. When you look at yourself correctly, you should always pay attention to yourself. The so-called self-respect is nothing more than self-discipline and self-care, in other words, don’t spoil yourself. Common saying say, People have faces, trees and skins, and no upright person does not cherish his own fame. Only those despicable scumbags who lost their morality did not care about the spurn of the common people, and did not speak of shame and disregard their faces. Every person with justice, kindness and righteousness should treat himself correctly and regard self-love and self-respect as our virtues. In this way, one’s own taste will be continuously improved. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. 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