Tell love to the one you love

He took his son back from his mother’s home by bike. On the way, I chatted with my son. Somehow I talked about his son’s love problem. I found that his son’s so-called lovers were all as short as the child’s grandmother. I smiled and asked his son: how do you find a girlfriend according to Grandma’s standard? Don’t you hate grandma nagging you? How do you find a girlfriend who is shorter than one by one? It seems that it is less than 1.5 meters. Don’t you think it is too different from your size? In this way, you still have feelings for grandma! Why do you always speak harshly to grandma at ordinary times? Let Grandma think that her grandson doesn’t like her! My son replied: nonsense! Of course I have feelings for my grandmother. I have been together for two or ten years. Since I have a lot of affection for my grandmother and love her, why do you never let her know? Never tell Grandma your feelings for her? I asked. My son was silent and didn’t answer. Indeed, for Chinese people, it seems to be difficult to express their feelings. If they have feelings in their hearts and love their relatives, it is hard to say the word “love” somehow, this is the case in ancient times and today. When my mother-in-law was born, she saw her son grow up from a little boy to a young man. During this period, there was not much love. My son lived under the same roof with us and my parents-in-law since childhood, I can’t say that I have deep feelings for my grandparents, but most of my mother-in-law’s parents-in-law’s love for their sons is reflected in daily food, clothing and life, such as sleeping late without getting up to eat, and not sleeping late, for example, I wear less clothes when it gets cold, for example, I eat too little when eating, and I don’t eat all kinds of food, etc. Maybe it was because he heard too much nagging at ordinary times. Every time his son was very impatient. At the dinner table, he would shoot his grandmother who couldn’t keep nagging with an eye knife, panting with anger, although he didn’t dare to say anything in his mouth, the reaction of words and expressions must have reached the limit. Sometimes he would put chopsticks on the dining table heavily: I won’t eat any more! He had to leave. At this time, I often whispered to my son: Grandma said that you are for your good. There are so many people in the world, why don’t others say anything about you? Because you have nothing to do with others! Grandma is so old, how can she not understand grandma’s heart at all? Generally, my son will listen to the advice and continue eating, even though he is angry. I think, in my son’s heart, I’m afraid I also understand that both parents, grandparents, parents, nagging and preaching are for their own good. But he was young and vigorous, and didn’t want to be nagged like a child. In his son’s words, he was so bored that his ears were covered with cocoons. Ha ha, my ears are going to be calluses, but I still don’t have a long memory, and I am always nagged. Why did I come? Nagging, in China now or in the past, is one of the ways to express parents’ love! People usually don’t think about anything for a long time, but if they get wisdom after losing their lives, they would rather not. My mother-in-law died of serious illness. From my son’s crying and sadness, I saw his son’s love for grandma. My mother-in-law also knew that her grandson loved her, but she had never heard the word “love” from her grandson’s mouth. Did she feel a little regretful to her mother-in-law and son? I said that my son’s lover was more like grandma, but my son didn’t refute it. I said to my son: You love grandma, and your heart is good to grandma, but what you say is rarely gentle whispers, your love for Grandma, grandma also knows it in her heart, but I think Grandma wants to hear it from your mouth more, which means that if you don’t say something, even if others know it in their heart, it is speculation, you need to prove it in words. If you want to speak out love, you can also speak out your dissatisfaction or thoughts in your heart. If you want to speak out love, you will feel very happy. If you want to speak out dissatisfaction or thoughts, you can listen to your parents and loved ones, there will be some explanation or sharing, and my psychological pressure will not be too much, which will make my confusion fade away from the tiny invisible. In this way, I would like to say that I love others, just like the sun hiding behind the clouds, you can’t feel warm, but when the sun comes out, the light and warmth will make people feel happy and warm. 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