Puberty met menopause

It is a little cold in winter mornings in northern China. We two shrank our necks and went to take the bus talking and laughing. The bus stop is 500 away from the unit. After getting off the bus, my daughter said, “Mom, do you have to walk so far every day after getting off the bus? How cold! At this moment, I realized that my daughter was my mother’s sweet little cotton-padded jacket, and my heart was very warm. An old colleague came to me. I haven’t seen my daughter and me for a long time and exchanged warm greetings. Maybe my daughter didn’t say hello because she didn’t know her. I felt unhappy, but I didn’t tell my daughter in time that she did something wrong. After arriving at the office, my daughter did simple work for me sensibly. I temporarily forgot the unhappiness just now. After a while, my daughter said she was thirsty and wanted to drink water. I asked her to brush the Cup. My daughter played a trick and said she didn’t want to go, which made her feel tired. In an instant, my mood was very low. I picked up the cup, stood up and went to brush it. And I told my daughter that she would find a way, don’t tell me, if she couldn’t, she would be thirsty. My daughter realized the seriousness of the problem and followed me out of the door. I was already very angry. I said, “get out of here, and also added,” Don’t make me uncomfortable in front of my eyes. My daughter returned knowingly, I dare not continue to follow me. I brushed the Cup and came back. My daughter turned to other colleagues’ desk with the materials that helped me do things. She didn’t dare to look at me. I asked her to put down the materials and told her to wear clothes to go home. I also said that I would not bring her to work in the future. My daughter was very wronged and shed tears. Chang Zhonghua, a colleague, hurried to dissuade him from saying, how could you let such a young child go home alone. My colleague dressed and prepared to take her downstairs to fetch the newspaper. I didn’t agree. Instead, I became more angry. I took the child to the office room, closed the door and pushed her to the bed. And pinched her nose hard. At that moment, I really wanted to beat her. I didn’t know why my anger was so strong. In fact, since I was a child, I pushed my daughter once just because she couldn’t tie her shoelace. At that time, the deep reason was that I just got angry with my child’s father. I think the ferocious appearance must have frightened the child. I have always known that I am not a good mother. My hysteria came up again, and I kept shouting: Recently, I saw you bring you to the company like a person. If so, I don’t want to come to my company again. And he told the story of Chen Zhima’s rotten millet, and taught her frankly. Buying food and clothes for her were all in vain. My daughter behind the cold wall must be helpless at that time. She kept crying, but didn’t dare to make too much noise. I didn’t know what her young heart was thinking about? I think at the moment I closed the door in the office, I closed a heart door like mine. I wanted to go in and see her, but I couldn’t let my face go. I held a pile of books and entered the inner room. I saw my daughter’s mood calmed down slightly. I threw the book in front of the child with a furious expression on my face. I told her that she could only stay inside, don’t want to get out. The child was always scared, but nodded timidly without making any noise. After a while, colleagues Wei Nan and Wei Wei came. Zhonghua said, “I am angry, and let them go into the inner room to see the child. The two blamed Zhonghua, and Zhonghua said, at that time I said the child’s words were too heavy, and she was frightened. At this time, I remembered that Zhonghua just graduated and was not married. He was also a child. I felt a little guilty in my heart, but I said nothing. Weiwei and Zhonghua analyzed that I am had already been updated, and they talked about their mother’s treatment of them during menopause. They were confused again. After all, I was less than 40 years old, they think the menopause came earlier. Wei Nan is the same age as me, and the child and daughter are the same size. They criticized me, saying that I was too strict with children. I said grumpily, that’s how my mother taught me. When I lost my temper, actually I didn’t want anything, and I couldn’t control myself at all. Some words directly came out, just like when my mother said about me, I was the little girl in front of me. Different from my mother, I said that my daughter’s frequency was higher than that of my mother, and her tone was heavier. Everyone was speechless. Sister Lu came and took over the job from me. Seeing my face was wrong, she didn’t ask anything more. During this period of time, my colleague went into the inner room several times and asked her daughter to come out. She didn’t dare to come out and stayed honestly all the time. Outside, everyone is not joking as usual. After a while, Wei Nan found that there was a hat in Juhuasuan on Taobao, which was very suitable for children. Let me see, I said, broken heart, don’t buy for her, tone is very tough. I browsed it and really liked it, so I called my daughter out. My daughter rushed out happily as if she had got an amnesty. Her eyes were red and swollen, and her eyes were also full of tears. She kept sniffing her nose. She stuck on me, and constantly put her head on my head, my shoulder, rubbing on me. I remembered that when I was a child, a young calf was born in my family, every time I feed it milk, it looks like this. My daughter’s terrified eyes made me feel that she was more like a deer seeking comfort. A colleague asked her whether she was afraid of her father or mother. Her daughter said she was afraid of her father and no one dared to provoke her. Zhonghua said she finally understood why her daughter was so sensitive and her self-esteem was so strong. Today, I bought a total of 3 sets of hats and 3 sets of sweater and trousers for her and her daughter’s cousins and cousins. As the Spring Festival was approaching, we began to prepare to go home to visit the gifts of our relatives. These gifts were chosen by my daughter from color to style. She was very thoughtful and always pleased me. Sister Lu was going to boil water. Her daughter rushed over and said, “she will go, and she also said that she could have a long memory this time. She took the initiative to go downstairs to help everyone pick up the Express. Everyone teased her, “you spoiled your mother, why don’t you argue with her? My daughter said, “think about it in perspective. If your daughter quarreled with you when you were talking about children, would you be very sad. Besides, everyone said that my mother spoiled me. My daughter was very calm when she said these words, as if she had accepted what she had just said. When my daughter could speak like this, I began to blame myself. I know that I did a very bad job today. First of all, I am very uncultivated and angry in front of my colleagues. I still don’t give you face. In addition, if someone came to handle affairs or the leader assigned tasks at that time, they would easily collide with each other. This negative emotion is very likely to make me fall into a situation beyond redemption. Luckily, I remembered the words my father often said to me later that I needed to adjust my mood quickly, otherwise one thing would be unhappy, which might lead to a series of things happening. Thank God, there was no big trouble. When getting off work, my daughter accompanied aunt Weiwei to the life service company to help everyone bring back some things and do things for everyone. She felt very happy and proactive. When she was off duty, her daughter took the initiative to see her aunt in the office. In the elevator, she could greet my colleague actively and say goodbye enthusiastically. She is an outgoing and generous girl, and her colleagues all praise her for being sensible. She is very useful. Someone asked her, “Will you come tomorrow?” she leaned against my arms with a smile and said in a very sweet voice, “Can you come again tomorrow? All the people in the elevator laughed, and I was finally infected. I finally smiled knowingly for a day. On the way home, I told my daughter one thing, which was lingering in my heart all the time. Once I went to a friend’s house, and his child was already a college student. On the day we went there, the child was also at home during the holiday. The door of the kid’s room had nothing to do with it. We also went with the kid’s uncle and aunt. When everyone greeted the kid warmly, the kid was reading a book. Maybe the plots in the book are so attractive that children forget the outside world. Everyone kept greeting the child. The child didn’t even raise his head, let alone stood up. I didn’t look at anyone from beginning to end. It was a very beautiful girl. Since then, I didn’t think she was beautiful at all. I told my daughter that it touched me a lot. I don’t know how the child’s uncle feels. I thought of my daughter at that time. If one day she went to college, became a big child, stood up as tall as an adult, and didn’t even understand the basic etiquette, I don’t even understand the least respect for people. How to establish a foothold in the society in the future? What’s the point if I don’t go to college like this. First of all, people should learn to respect others and greet others warmly when meeting. My daughter said that she could understand that her mother was good for her, and she would take the initiative to greet others in the future. She must do what adults asked to do immediately. If she didn’t do it, mom said she should do the same. I don’t know if my daughter thinks so in her heart. But I am still very happy that my daughter can say so. In the evening, my daughter came to my room voluntarily. Holding a book in hand, he told me that mom should be polite and say hello initiatively. Look at the people in this article, although their grades are not very good, because of these details, they have more opportunities to realize their dreams than others. My daughter told her story seriously and shared her feelings with me. It seems that my daughter has really grown up today. I told my daughter that my mother’s attitude was wrong, and the words were really heavy. But this does not mean that she did the right thing. She must remember what happened today. Compared with my daughter’s growth, what needs to grow more is myself. First of all, I should learn to manage my emotions. If it wasn’t because my daughter didn’t greet my colleagues and I had bad emotions, I wouldn’t be so angry today. Because brushing the Cup is just the fuse. The deeper reason is still on me. Secondly, we should learn to communicate in a timely manner. If I told my daughter at that time that I should greet my mother’s colleagues in a timely manner, but I didn’t say hello just now, my mother was very ashamed and felt very uncomfortable, it also affects her image in other people’s hearts. Maybe she can also listen to it. She should be able to handle the next thing well. Besides, being too selfish, the first thing that comes to mind is your own face. She always asks for return when doing things, otherwise she will not mention the money she has paid for raising and educating her, which is irrelevant to today, and she should not feel sad. Mother’s love for her daughter should surpass her love. In short, I think there are still some problems. If you can do something, you will turn to yourself. Wei Nan is right. You are a mother. You should do all the things you said. What children do not do well is what children should work hard. Thank you, my daughter, for letting us grow together! When adolescence meets menopause, as long as we work together, we believe that all problems will be solved easily. Like (prose editor: yuiran) the snow in spring Spring elimination snow, multi-the yao nian, unspoken. Reading from afar, it is just above that snowfield. The snow is really beautiful, after all it is spring… Waiting Waiting is a kind of persistence, sticking to a certain belief and never giving up. 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