“Tips” to comfort yourself”

In life, each of us has our own temperament. Many times, we will feel that our life is not sufficient, we lack too much, and we are inferior to others everywhere, so I felt very painful in my heart. At this moment, we should learn to comfort ourselves and don’t have trouble with ourselves. People who are poor cannot be short-minded. Material poverty is not terrible, but psychological poverty. Poverty is often associated with poverty. Poverty is often associated with short ambitions. Mental poverty leads to wealth becoming poverty, and mental wealth can also turn to wealth. Material poverty and frustration will destroy a person’s body quickly. He is confident and self-reliant. Although there is temporary material poverty, good days will come soon. People are always eager to be poor and self-reliant. Learn to like yourself. Blind arrogance and self-esteem are a life of pride and ignorance. Blindly giving up oneself is a life of negative pessimism. Knowing oneself is more difficult than knowing others, and liking oneself is more difficult than liking others. With a healthy and appropriate self-esteem, you will be particularly strong in the face of setbacks. Don’t lose yourself for the temptation of the outside world, don’t deny yourself for a temporary setback, evaluate yourself objectively and calmly from time to time, and appreciate yourself surely in optimism. Live a full life. Living a good life every day is the greatest happiness. Happiness comes from feeling good every day. I always worry about the risks of tomorrow and can’t erase the shadow of yesterday. How can I enjoy today’s life? Always compare with those that can’t be compared, always imagine those that can’t be achieved, how can today’s mood be quiet? Any unrealistic thing is the source of pain. The biggest killer of life is sorrow and anxiety. Pain comes from infullness. If life is full, you will not think about it. Don’t get along with yourself. Learning to appreciate yourself is equal to having the golden key to obtain happiness. Appreciating yourself is not self-respect, not self-reliance, not self-intoxication, not self-indulgence, and not self-entrenched. Giving yourself some information, you give yourself a little happiness, and you give yourself a smile, why do you worry that there is no happiness in life? I often have to celebrate festivals for myself and learn to find a happy mood. Don’t live too tired. People often sigh that you are really tired. Tiredness means great mental pressure, while tiredness means heavy psychological burden. Tired and not tired are always relative. If you want not to be tired, you must learn to relax. Life is important. Tired heart makes people fall into sub-health state for a long time; Tired heart will make oneself depressed. Have your own way of living. I know my pain, my sadness, my happiness, maybe the hell in my eyes is the heaven in others’ eyes, maybe the heaven in my eyes, it is the hell in others’ eyes. Life is so funny. Don’t always doubt that spring is always in others. The key lies in the adjustment of your mentality. It is the most important thing to live your life well. You can’t compare with it. Alert adverse desire. People always sigh, moths fly to the fire, people always ridicule the fish for taking the bait, people always laugh at themselves in the mire. But if you think about it carefully, are there still few tragedies of this desire around our lives? ren xin bu zu she tun xiang. People who indulge their souls will eventually lose their true freedom, and they must always be alert to bad desires. Don’t just please others. It is impossible and unnecessary to please everyone. To please everyone is equal to offending everyone. Deliberately pleasing others will only make others disgusted. It is natural to get close to others, the speculative mentality needs to be changed. If you have time to please others, it is better to do things steadfastly. It is always unreliable to please others. Only when you work hard can you be real. If you please others blindly, you will lose yourself. It is very important to enrich yourself. Remember danger. Don’t be carried away by the gains and losses of a moment, and be intoxicated with the temporary victory blindly. You must be prepared for danger in times of peace. Don’t be proud of yourself, proud of yourself, intoxicated with victory, which means stopping, intoxicated with victory, and losing vigilance, never let go on the road of life. Victory is just a small Signpost. If you want to win the final victory, you have to work hard, work hard, and work hard again. Don’t be confused by the moment. Who laughs the latest and who laughs the happiest. Should joy degree. Appropriate recreational activities can regulate emotions, but endless joy is easy to turn benefits to harm. Things are reversed, and the number of poor changes. The most pleasant place is the sick place. Chess is free and easy to move. Just revelry is a superficial life, and what is exchanged is often painful regret. Enjoyment is a philosophical life. Happiness and sorrow are not limited to entertainment, but involve all aspects of life. Happiness and sorrow are associated, and happiness will always accompany you. Don’t care too much about others’ comments. No painting is not evaluated by others, and no one is not discussed by others. If you are silent, some people will blame the city for being too deep; If you are good at talking, some people will blame for being arrogant; If you praise others, some people will blame for having ulterior motives, and if you criticize in good faith, some people will be more furious and think that they are meddling. Looking at other people’s faces alone, you can still live, own yourself, and not be confined to yourself. Always feel happy. Many of them are deliberately pursuing the so-called happiness; Although some get it, the price is enormous. Many philosophers say that happiness is a kind of feeling. The feeling of happiness decreases with the degree of satisfaction, which is closely related to people’s mood and mentality. The philosophers said: The harder you get, the deeper you love, the more happiness you have, the harder you often think about. One cannot feel happiness, which is his greatest sorrow. Happiness is a kind of feeling. If you are not satisfied, you will never be happy. Like (prose editor: Jiangnan wind) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. 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Calm that pleasure

I can’t leave my trace in the sky, but I have already flew. Someone said. How good this is! In fact, isn’t this the best interpretation of calm? To be honest, in our life, many successes and losses are not what we can predict, and many things are not what we can undertake. However, as long as we work hard to get a calm after giving, what we actually get is a kind of happiness. Looking at the real situation carefully, now there are more tall buildings, roads have been repaired, houses have become larger, salaries have increased, cars have been available, life has been better, but there are more troubles. Every day, people living in corners and corners are running around for survival. Many faces see tension, confusion and exhaustion. Why is the living standard improving now, but the complaints come one after another? What kind of psychology bothers us and then falls into a state of self-seeking troubles? Therefore, someone came to such a conclusion that our eyes see too much from the outside world, while our hearts are too little. Yes, the colorful world attracts people’s attention, which makes people’s attention in life more confused by materials and seldom calm down to comfort the soul and listen to the real needs of the soul. Therefore, there are so many impetuousness and gloom in social life. How to get rid of those things that make you confused and unhappy and seek a kind of inner peace? The best way is to calm your mind. Calm? Calm is a kind of optimism after you are frustrated, a kind of self-adjustment when you are depressed, a kind of confidence in plain, a kind of natural and unrestrained, and a kind of happiness. Calm is the selflessness in the bottom of my heart, calm is the self-transcendence of life, calm is the eternal background of truth, goodness and beauty, calm is the bright smile under the bright sunshine, always sweet, and the dark corner is always wet, inevitably, bacteria will become moldy. Of course, it will send out mildew, stench, choking people and being spurned. Therefore, calm will eventually win the respect and praise of the world. For a man, it is extremely happy to be respected and praised by others. Friends, when you are surrounded by confusion and hesitation, please learn to be calm. Calm will definitely let you overcome everything, expel troubles, and make your eyes clear and smart. Calm is plain happiness. I once saw those holiday anglers who fished alone for a day and returned empty-handed. But in the beautiful sunset, there was still a bright smile on his face. Although a little confused, I don’t think like that from another angle. Although the angler came back empty-handed, he caught a day of happiness and leisure. For anglers, the happiness comes from fishing, and the good mood of the day comes from fishing. Calm is optimism after failure. In life, it is hard for us to predict failure and success: failure and success often miss each other, and happiness and pain often pass by. They often set up barriers when we most want to get close. Facing the reality, we don’t have to be negative and pessimistic, and accept it calmly, which will make people get out of the shadow, get out of confusion, regain confidence and regain the position of their life. Tagore has a famous saying: there is no trace of birds left in the sky, but I have already flown. This may be the best interpretation of calm. In real life, there are many people who are unpredictable and even impossible to prevent. However, we don’t have to care about it, let alone complain. When we have to face them, we just need to treat them with our sincerity. To treat a scumbag with a gentleman’s heart, isn’t it just to face everything with our calm? Isn’t that more showing our broad mind? We have loved, cried, achieved success and lost. However, when we look back on all this, we are still proud, because we have faced all this bravely and are bright and aboveboard. If life only gives us setbacks and failures again and again, in fact, this is nothing. Because that is just fate torturing and testing us, we still have the happiness of life and the right to pursue freedom. We can proudly say that without the blue sky, we can have the elegance of white clouds; Without the magnificence of the sea, we can have the leisure of streams; Without the fragrance of the prairie, we can have the green grass. Because there is no bystander in life, everyone has a position belonging to himself, and everyone can also find a kind of excellence belonging to himself. Some words can make our life calm. For example, crying does not mean giving in; Taking a step back does not mean admitting defeat; Letting go does not mean giving up. Also, go to the farthest direction, even if the road ahead is confused; Hold the greatest hope, even if the mountain and the water run out; Stick to the strongest will, even if the knife and the mountain are fire; Prepare for the worst, even if you start from scratch. Also, don’t forget what you once had; Cherish what you have gained; Don’t give up what belongs to yourself; Keep memories of what you have lost; Work hard to get what you want; but the most important thing is to cherish yourself. Besides, if you do something wrong, correct it; If you are sad, cry bitterly; If you are tired, look back; If you are tired, have a rest; If you are desperate, have no choice. Look, how calm we are! Yu Qiuyu once said, it is really tiring to live, and someone feels so sad. Living is really annoying, and even some people sigh like this. 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