Borrowing money to meet friends, how much sincerity is in it

I saw a story in my nephew’s space: so-and-so borrowed money because of business, made phone calls one by one according to the degree of intimacy of friends, and didn’t borrow it until the tenth, feeling that his heart was extremely empty. Friends who speak well at ordinary times are so few that they can be reliable when encountering things. The friend who knew about this wanted to try his friendship and also tried to borrow money from his friend: The result was that the first five or six people said that they couldn’t lend it immediately for such reasons, and only the latter two said that there was no problem, I will think about making money. It is certainly not the only way to test the relationship degree of friends by borrowing money. However, it is also an extremely important way in today’s society. I deeply understand this. Last year to buy a house fund-raising, a week borrowed 300,000, say good 3 months after returned. There was no problem when my sister-in-law talked about it. She just asked when to ask for it. She also said that if there was a need, she would try to find a way for her family affection, which could not be compared with others. The other two friends gave a discount on the number they said, but they also brought it in time. They were sincere friends, and they could get as much as they could. One of them also said, take it and use it. It will be OK at any time. When I went to return it on time, he also said, if it is tight, I will return it to others first; I will put it here first, if you need it again, how good friends can be like this? Moved free hearts; And. There is only one, according to the relationship I calculated in my mind before I spoke, it is still very good. I helped him and his wife a lot in their work at that time, I didn’t expect to say that I didn’t respond at all. He was the only one who didn’t lend me money. Of course, I left room when I opened my mouth. Without him, the money would have been enough. What you get from borrowing money is the same as what you have learned in life: it’s not that you help a lot or your true friends, and you don’t have much contact with each other at ordinary times, only those who are warm in your heart are the ones you can trust; Some people do not learn to be grateful, and those who often depend on each other in their hearts are the ones you can rely on. Of course, what friends communicate with each other attentively and treat sincerely are still true friends after all. Compared with my friends in the story, I don’t think I have much loss. I got support as soon as I opened my mouth and didn’t do more tests. It seemed that my basic feeling was right. I thought that the people who could use it with money were not much different from the actual results. Sister, looking for 3 Personal, two people undertook and implemented, accounted for 66.6%, in this social environment, is a high score. This figure represents the fact in two aspects: my friends’ opinions in my heart and my thoughts in my friends’ hearts. More than half of them are basically gratified. But I also feel that if I expand the scope and have greater needs, it is doubtful whether I can keep such figures. I am not sure that all my good friends in my heart are true friends, and maybe a friend who is ignored at ordinary times is true friends; I don’t think that borrowing money can definitely test the distance of friends, maybe I really don’t know enough about my friends’ current economic status, or maybe they just need money when they encounter things; I know that it is impossible for a person to have too many real good friends in his life, don’t overestimate the value of helping others in other people’s lives over the years. Don’t overestimate your position in other people’s hearts. I am also thinking about what will happen to me if someone asks me to borrow money. I think, maybe the result is the same: there is nothing to say among relatives, which had been practiced long ago when the younger siblings needed it. As for my friend, two friends recently said, one borrowed it without saying anything; The other borrowed it strangely, he said that a boss who just met was arrested for finding a woman in a hotel somewhere and asked him to help pay the fine. He gave the account number. He didn’t agree and asked me to lend it. I was confused at that time, so I said you should figure out the situation first, how could this kind of thing be possible. A few hours later, he called and said no more. He was fooled. He paid 2000 yuan for Shui Piao. I said fortunately, if you insisted on it, I might have thought about it. It seems that some friends need to think clearly about borrowing money. If it is difficult, it will not help him but hurt him. It is said that there is also some particular emphasis on borrowing money: Generally, people who do business cannot borrow money, nor can people who lend money to others. People who do not do business can’t borrow money, let alone think that if they can’t borrow money from friends on serious matters, it’s really cool in my heart. This can certainly explain the true and false degree of friends, as well as the status of living people: there are few real friends, and they are not real either. It is really appropriate to use the mirror of friends to look at your work and life. 2012 nian 2 yue 3 ri Like (prose editor: Ke Er) change the way to continue to stay with this city I went out at 6 o’clock in the morning and came back at almost 8 o’clock in the evening. From beginning to end, I only welcomed myself with silence; Since I went to college, on weekends… [Original essay] string words Since winter, the sky is dry and the snow is misty. The whole earth is desolate and empty. 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