Warm winter (7) give you a new year gift

On the first day of the new year, our brothers walked 6 miles to pay New Year greetings to their elders. Walking on the road, I asked myself, what is new? What is old? What is the true meaning of the year? How to realize the essential meaning of farewell to the old and welcome the new? In the traditional fairy tales of our country, the year was originally a monster, the predecessor of the couplet was peach symbol, and the previous life of firecrackers was bamboo (burning bamboo). The original intention of Spring Festival was to drive away fear, later it evolved into festival celebration, and now it is mostly social engagement. Who gives the meaning of farewell to the old and welcome the new? The Lunar New Year is the end of a cycle and the beginning of a new cycle. In the sense of time, Nian undertakes the past time and opens up a new time. In order to make this time node more meaningful, our customs urge US to send away the kitchen Prince, clean the dust, wear new clothes and hats, what we achieve and see is a process from old to new. It’s just that we keep complaining. What’s the meaning of Spring Festival? Children are still looking forward to the new year, and a few candies will make them happy. When I was young, I also looked forward to the New Year. Deep in my memory was the scene of Playing firecrackers and asking for New Year’s money. There is a kind of firecrackers called falling whip. As long as it falls to the ground, it will ring. Work in the city of two uncle end always on things, give us brothers, felt then that treasure. Or use a few cents to buy some in the sales department, you can also show off in front of your friends. Now I don’t expect the new year, and the new year is always unexpected. It’s just that I can’t leave any special memories year after year, and I feel a little dull. Why do you feel this way? Is there too much desire? When festivals turn into social activities, it becomes a burden and a mere formality, which is easy to generate complaints. I asked myself what is old and what is new? Is it difficult to find new clothes and hats? The real old and new should never be an external form, but an essential change. Now the material life is so rich that you can buy new clothes and hats at any time. As long as you are willing, you can dress yourself up completely. There is nothing to look forward to during the Spring Festival, let alone adding a little helplessness after one year old. Year is the annual ring that records the growth of life. In an individual’s life, one year is relatively long. In the whole life, one year is short. Time is our life, one cycle after another. We can’t grow older and have substantial growth. Denying myself and rebuilding myself is a way to promote my detachment. In the way of looking inward, we should not care about whether the appearance changes or not, but the change of inner thoughts. In the new year, I will accelerate and strengthen my reflection and try my best to make myself grow as fast as possible. In my opinion, the transition cycle of an excellent life is not 365 days. They summarize every day, reflect day by day and make progress from time to time. If you wait passively for 365 days and then do this, there is no doubt that you will waste a lot of time, and it is easy to get lost in the nothingness year after year. I think we need to form a habit — take every day as a shrinking year, make plans every day, put them into action, summarize and reflect, save ourselves and so on, such a life is brand new every day. When writing these down at this moment, I always feel that I am in the rut of reasoning. If it can be called reasonable, in fact, I just understood it. Some people may have told me a similar truth before. For me, it is just others’. At this moment, the awakening of self-consciousness makes me truly understand these. Now it belongs to me. As a gift to you, it may not make you have this feeling. In the past, I also expected someone to give me the truth of life to guide me to avoid detours and get out of trouble with the help of others. Life is not like this. People are divided into three categories, one is spontaneous combustion, the other is combustion-supporting, and the third is non-combustible. An incombustible life cannot be changed by others. Therefore, I found that the only person who changes myself is myself. Others can only help you, not for you. Tonight, in the noise of gongs and drums outside the window, I once again thought about how to say goodbye to the old and welcome the new, and wrote down my own feelings in the less beautiful regular script. If you can, you can use it as a gift for the new year to start your healthy, intelligent and happy life journey. 2012 nian 1 yue 25 ri first draft 1 yue 29 ri again draft

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