Calm that pleasure

I can’t leave my trace in the sky, but I have already flew. Someone said. How good this is! In fact, isn’t this the best interpretation of calm? To be honest, in our life, many successes and losses are not what we can predict, and many things are not what we can undertake. However, as long as we work hard to get a calm after giving, what we actually get is a kind of happiness. Looking at the real situation carefully, now there are more tall buildings, roads have been repaired, houses have become larger, salaries have increased, cars have been available, life has been better, but there are more troubles. Every day, people living in corners and corners are running around for survival. Many faces see tension, confusion and exhaustion. Why is the living standard improving now, but the complaints come one after another? What kind of psychology bothers us and then falls into a state of self-seeking troubles? Therefore, someone came to such a conclusion that our eyes see too much from the outside world, while our hearts are too little. Yes, the colorful world attracts people’s attention, which makes people’s attention in life more confused by materials and seldom calm down to comfort the soul and listen to the real needs of the soul. Therefore, there are so many impetuousness and gloom in social life. How to get rid of those things that make you confused and unhappy and seek a kind of inner peace? The best way is to calm your mind. Calm? Calm is a kind of optimism after you are frustrated, a kind of self-adjustment when you are depressed, a kind of confidence in plain, a kind of natural and unrestrained, and a kind of happiness. Calm is the selflessness in the bottom of my heart, calm is the self-transcendence of life, calm is the eternal background of truth, goodness and beauty, calm is the bright smile under the bright sunshine, always sweet, and the dark corner is always wet, inevitably, bacteria will become moldy. Of course, it will send out mildew, stench, choking people and being spurned. Therefore, calm will eventually win the respect and praise of the world. For a man, it is extremely happy to be respected and praised by others. Friends, when you are surrounded by confusion and hesitation, please learn to be calm. Calm will definitely let you overcome everything, expel troubles, and make your eyes clear and smart. Calm is plain happiness. I once saw those holiday anglers who fished alone for a day and returned empty-handed. But in the beautiful sunset, there was still a bright smile on his face. Although a little confused, I don’t think like that from another angle. Although the angler came back empty-handed, he caught a day of happiness and leisure. For anglers, the happiness comes from fishing, and the good mood of the day comes from fishing. Calm is optimism after failure. In life, it is hard for us to predict failure and success: failure and success often miss each other, and happiness and pain often pass by. They often set up barriers when we most want to get close. Facing the reality, we don’t have to be negative and pessimistic, and accept it calmly, which will make people get out of the shadow, get out of confusion, regain confidence and regain the position of their life. Tagore has a famous saying: there is no trace of birds left in the sky, but I have already flown. This may be the best interpretation of calm. In real life, there are many people who are unpredictable and even impossible to prevent. However, we don’t have to care about it, let alone complain. When we have to face them, we just need to treat them with our sincerity. To treat a scumbag with a gentleman’s heart, isn’t it just to face everything with our calm? Isn’t that more showing our broad mind? We have loved, cried, achieved success and lost. However, when we look back on all this, we are still proud, because we have faced all this bravely and are bright and aboveboard. If life only gives us setbacks and failures again and again, in fact, this is nothing. Because that is just fate torturing and testing us, we still have the happiness of life and the right to pursue freedom. We can proudly say that without the blue sky, we can have the elegance of white clouds; Without the magnificence of the sea, we can have the leisure of streams; Without the fragrance of the prairie, we can have the green grass. Because there is no bystander in life, everyone has a position belonging to himself, and everyone can also find a kind of excellence belonging to himself. Some words can make our life calm. For example, crying does not mean giving in; Taking a step back does not mean admitting defeat; Letting go does not mean giving up. Also, go to the farthest direction, even if the road ahead is confused; Hold the greatest hope, even if the mountain and the water run out; Stick to the strongest will, even if the knife and the mountain are fire; Prepare for the worst, even if you start from scratch. Also, don’t forget what you once had; Cherish what you have gained; Don’t give up what belongs to yourself; Keep memories of what you have lost; Work hard to get what you want; but the most important thing is to cherish yourself. Besides, if you do something wrong, correct it; If you are sad, cry bitterly; If you are tired, look back; If you are tired, have a rest; If you are desperate, have no choice. Look, how calm we are! Yu Qiuyu once said, it is really tiring to live, and someone feels so sad. Living is really annoying, and even some people sigh like this. And after looking for hundreds of reasons, I found that living in my vision presents a difference from others, not because life gives me any difference, but just because, in my mind, full of these two words, calm. Friends, let’s face everything calmly!

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