Who hurt our children?

Last Friday was the day when children returned to school to get their transcripts. Although the state now makes three orders and five applications and clearly points out that students’ academic scores should not be published, the scores are always a double-edged sword hanging on children’s heads. I got my grades back, and some people were happy and some were worried. Naturally, parents are very happy with their good grades; Those who do not have good grades go home in a low mood, which also causes their parents to be unhappy, worried and worried. This is not the case, and there is a regretful and painful thing: a child with good grades has suddenly dropped from the first place to the twentieth place, so the teacher talked with him, after the conversation, the teacher talked to the parents again. Before the parents went to school, the bad news came: the child jumped off a building and committed suicide! Although the child did not lose his life, his spine was fractured and a large area of brain accumulated water. Due to the serious injury, he had to transfer from People’s Hospital to Beijing hospital for treatment. The director of education followed him personally, and all the medical expenses were borne by the Education Bureau. However, no matter how good the medical conditions were, could the precious life of the child be saved? I heard that in order to create a good learning environment for the child, the child’s parents never watched TV plays when they came home, and they all took a book there and studied with the child, even if you don’t want to read it, you should also give your child a reading style. Parents did a good job, but they ignored one thing, that is, they did not give effective psychological guidance to children while teaching them to master book knowledge. There are many exams in life, which is just the beginning of life. In this world, there is no general who always wins. Who can guarantee that he will always be the first? After all, there are people outside the world. However, this child was too fragile in spirit. His parents didn’t tell him, and he couldn’t understand a truth: in this world, nothing could be as precious as life, since I am not afraid of death and my academic performance is a little backward, what is it? I think the parents of this child now must prefer their children not to take the first place in the exam, but also want their children to live well. We should be alert not only to parents, but also to teachers. Khao, Kao, Examination is the magic weapon of teachers; Points, points, points, the lifeblood of students, such an era should have been past. Even if a student with excellent quality and learning can succeed in the future, his ability to adapt to the society is very low. How can he become a pillar of the country? I still remember a piece of news I read not long ago: a peasant couple who worked outside, because they just graduated from primary school and knew well the hardship of working, put their hopes on their children, I once taught my child to read words, but the child was unwilling to read words. The child’s father hit him with a stick, and it was conceivable that the child was killed alive by his own father. Can you say that this father does not love his children? Love, he loves too much, but he doesn’t know how to guide children correctly. He ignores children’s nature of playing, which leads to another human tragedy. I also remembered the case of Xu Li killing his mother that shocked the whole country. Xu Li’s parents were both senior intellectuals. In order to learn, Xu Li’s parents restricted all Xu Li’s freedom. Under their high-pressure policy, xu Li felt very desperate. Finally, because of a very small thing, Xu Li broke out. He killed his biological mother cruelly. The bloody reality makes us feel the heaviness of education. We can’t help sighing: What’s wrong with today’s education? Everyone knows that the national policy is to reduce the burden vigorously, but the burden is not reduced, but the students’ schoolbags become heavier. Although there is no class on weekends in the morning and evening, the children are more tired than before. On the one hand, they have to deal with the teacher’s homework examination; On the other hand, they have to finish the homework assigned by their parents, and even take part in various tutorial classes. Although today’s children eat well and dress well, however, there was no beautiful childhood. Even children came out one by one with vegetable color on their faces. It was not malnutrition, but that they had no chance to run in the sun and had a happy childhood of their own. In fact, quality education has been started for many years. The slogan is loud, but how many people can really implement it? There are several schools? As long as the policy of the college entrance examination is not changed, the baton of education will not deviate from the direction of the examination. On the surface, the burden on children is relieved, but in fact, the burden on their shoulders is heavier. Because almost every family is the only child, and a child shoulders the hope of several generations of the whole family. If a child fails, it is a 100% failure. Parents can’t stand such failure, this kind of failure is not allowed to happen to oneself. Therefore, they only have to impose their own will on the children, and in addition, the teachers in the school should have grades in order to evaluate their professional titles, and the school will also exert certain pressure on the teachers in order to have more students, how can children bear their thin shoulders? Because of an unsatisfactory result, I committed suicide, which is the sorrow of today’s education. It is not a scientific way of education to blindly pursue achievements, regardless of the endurance that children should have. Today, we should be alert: Who on earth is hurting our children!

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