Why do people make themselves so tired

Whether the flashy world blocks your clear sight; Whether the noisy afternoon intoxicates your bright eyes. In the whole life, passers-by are in a hurry, and what footprints have been left in your hard disk of life. A dream in the world of mortals is empty after all. Who is hesitating, struggling and shouting. The moon will not lose its brilliance because of the shade of dark clouds, but you can’t see it. The so-called tiredness is actually just a matter of face. Maybe it is the helplessness of life, but you can choose the helpless mood to face the helpless life; It is also the obsession in everyone’s heart, but you can turn your obsession into memory. The reason why everyone is wrong is that everyone loves face. People, in fact, really love face, although everyone is unwilling to admit in front of others, this is not another disguise. Some people like to show off their wealth, beauty and figure… this is a kind of superficial face, while life is more about inner face, which can’t be said clearly or said clearly, but it does exist. Unemployed people bury the failure and loss of their career with the words that I will find a better job; Those who are brokenhearted can pretend to care nothing in front of others, however, the endless pain can not be hidden in the heart, and perhaps the tears overflowing from the corners of the eyes can also be wiped away with a stiff smile. Women, I don’t deny that she is rational, and I don’t bother to deny that she is generous. However, in fact, compared with men, ordinary women are emotional and seem a little small, which is not a more face-saving performance. She would rather wrongly think that her mistake was right than admit her mistake in front of others, especially in front of the same sex, and would continue to make mistakes. Sometimes, I would make a big noise for a trivial matter, which finally made the inside and outside of the country not human. It was originally a step back, but no one was willing to retreat. Finally, this was the result of the quarrel between the two women. No one will let anyone. Who can say for sure that this is not saving face. People, no matter how they do, can not hide her emotional side, the most direct embodiment is in love. The beginning of love is just to satisfy her curiosity or make up for the sadness left by the previous love. This is a beautiful beginning. Gradually, getting used to it and becoming plain, I feel it doesn’t matter. Their love only cares about themselves. I find that lovers in the same place usually break up with the man; While lovers in different places usually break up with the woman, and most of the reasons for breaking up are the same. If the man doesn’t care about the breakup proposed by the woman, then her fate will be miserable and she will be filled with regret and pain in the future; If the man asks to stay easily, then she may feel a little pain; if the man tried his best to persuade her to stay, it didn’t matter if she became her for so long, because she succeeded and looked down at her as a winner. The more you care about a woman in love, the less she cares about you. On the contrary, the less you care about her, the more she cares about you. Most men have strong self-esteem. In fact, this is also a matter of face. They are not willing to admit that they are inferior to other women in front of other women, nor are they willing to associate with strong women, especially those who are stronger than themselves. In love, they also hope to conquer each other spiritually and make her die-hard. Generally speaking, men are generous, but it doesn’t mean they don’t care about face, on the contrary, they are very polite. The generosity of a man only exists between two men, or friends who have a good relationship with her, except for a girlfriend. Men have their own principles. Those who should be generous will never be selfish, but those who should be selfish will never be generous. The face of men is usually shown when there are women. Most men like to show themselves in front of women, hoping to gain more female eyes, even though he already has a girlfriend. There are two situations for men, one is nothing to say, the other is persistent recovery. But there is no difference in others’ eyes, because they are not willing to admit that they are brokenhearted, and they are not willing to accept what others say that you are dumped by a girl, in fact, men are more proud of their dignity. The persistence of men may be that they are not willing to accept the facts. If they don’t want to accept the fact that they don’t think it will happen. This is also a face. People with Flower Hearts never think that they are flower hearts. In their cognition, the love they have talked over and over again is just to find a more suitable one among many people, they are never willing to admit the missing and pain they have brought to those people they have loved, while at the same time they are trying their best to deny their flower hearts. Son, I don’t deny that it is really important, but saving face really makes us feel tired. People, why are you so proud of face? Can you stop being so tired. Women, don’t be so emotional, so small. Men, Don’t be so reluctant to admit that women are better than themselves, and don’t dare to face the lost face. People with Flower Hearts should not dare to admit their own flower hearts. It is better to be yourself. The emotional world is too dark, I can’t see it, so I chose to close my eyes and not see it. The emotional life is too bright to stimulate my eyes, so I also choose to close my eyes and not look at it. I don’t want myself to be too tired… 2011.05.13

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